It's his fault that he's not in a couple! There will probably be some unhappy couples at this wedding, but think about the truly happy ones... Do you think their relationships will be anything like what you and twatface had?
I hate it when they pull the sympathy card it is such a low blow, and really it's another way of putting the blame on us for them being upset. They're only upset because now they have to look after themselves! Of course he's missing your affection, and your compliance, and your cooking and cleaning and all the other shit you did for him. Of course he misses being with you, being with you was great for him! It was only lousy for you because you got nothing back! Do you miss the late nights, the strippers, the staying in bed all day, the disrespectful attitude, the lousy father, the sexual entitlement?
I've skipped straight to annoyance... But I guess going NC with my 'D'M made me good at emotional detachment! Out of sight, out of mind... He's just words on a screen!
My advice is to stop picking up his phone calls and replying to his texts. Mine keeps saying that we should be civil for DD, but in my mind civil doesn't mean being bestest buddies. I certainly wouldn't treat any friend of mine like that, and I'd get rid of any friend who did.
I also told mine though it fell on deaf ears apparently that at the moment everything is still very fresh, and I will be better at being "pleasant" as time goes on, which is true.
But please stop torturing yourself by interacting with him when you don't have to! You don't feel detached because you haven't detached yourself... Fake it till you make it!
it's tough Capes but you'll get there