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DH has just joined twitter without telling me

111 replies

StrawberrytallCake · 02/09/2016 18:20

I'm a bit worried as my dh has just joined twitter, as stated - made his profile private and not joined up to me...all whilst he was supposed to be looking after our two children. Just before he made it private (he didn't realise this would happen I suspect) I had a notification that he has joined and saw who he started following within which were two relatively famous attractive sports women. He has been working late the last few nights - I know not having an affair because I know the people he was with, but if he had nothing to hide he would surely tell me?

I've got a really horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach, should I catfish or just wait and see if he tells me? Was looking forward to a nice night together tonight and now my heart is racing. Am I being over the top?

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LAmusic · 03/09/2016 09:23

Jeezo it's Twitter not tinder

Overthinker2016 · 03/09/2016 09:36

I had more dates from Twitter than Tinder Grin

Very much depends on who you follow etc though - but my experience is that people do date through it

Livelovebehappy · 03/09/2016 09:43

If his overall behaviour hasn't changed since him joining Twitter, then I wouldn't worry. I'm on Twitter, and haven't told my husband because not sure he'd be interested anyway.

IreallyKNOWiamright · 03/09/2016 09:45

My dh doesn't follow me on Twitter or is my fb friend. Partly cause he doesn't want to see my whinging or rants sometimes. I think if your dh has had a form of cheating or porn then be concerned.

sonjadog · 04/09/2016 15:13

How do you end up getting dates on Twitter? I'm curious now. I just get into dull political arguments.

JackandDiane · 04/09/2016 15:23

i know lots of people who met on Twitter
I am also aware of lots of women who post titty avis and then go all pearl clutchy when a bloke sends her a message - you see that a lot

ask him why he has locked his account - or dm me his name and I can go in undercover

user1471888857 · 04/09/2016 15:25

I've got Twitter.
I use it to stalk Famous people Blush

sonjadog · 04/09/2016 15:36

Titty avis? What´s that?? Maybe that´s where I´m going wrong...

I stalk Usain Bolt on my Twitter. I live out my fantasy relationship with him where he decides to move to small-town Norway.

JackandDiane · 04/09/2016 16:29

stalking celebs is IMO the worst use of Twitter - they are dull and don't interact. Real people who you become friends with - stay with them , go to their weddings (!) is way better

FloppyRagdoll · 04/09/2016 17:13

I joined Twitter to follow the General Assembly of the Church of Scotland. How sad is that?

sonjadog · 04/09/2016 21:50

Much flirting going on there?

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