Moldie Daters growing, gaining wisdom, strength and insights, delivering truth kindly, yoga, meditation, hypnosis, self-help books, netflix recommendations, quick outfit checks & more

[314dPiper]

Here we go!

Let the wisdom commence
The universe is in our favour!

Yeh. So true. So many different ways people can let each other down or just be incompatible.

Im going out with a very old iron tomorrow night but he is not the type to rush me or push me. Think he might be a friend.

I think i should achieve either a new job or a licence before i date.... just feel these two things have been on my to do list since this time last year.

Dating if you want to (!) And not if you dont want to is a good guide.

Yes it is mr canceller. He's clever and funny but a fearful avoidant if ever i met one. It's good though, because he disappeared on me and then came back (3rd time now) I feel we are friends. Which as I dont fancy him quite enough to want more suits me perfectly.

Im bored at work. Applied for 5 jobs. Posting life hacks and jokes to facebook. I did the right thing deleting msg. He'd think it was for his benefit.

Right let me do something productive and ring another company about automatic car lessons.

Ps, did a whole day at work seem too long!?

Yeh, a few hours sleep under your belt (same here) and for you it's kind of midnight !

Hi! date(s) already! good news!

Red spot!?!? lol. I take your red spot and I raise you, one polyp. Mind you, my date tonigth won't be seeing that, not tonight or ever!

I started my day plotting revenge against msg but then went to the docs for a smear and sti test. she said she could SEE a polyp so I have to go and have it removed. she gave me a valium (1) to take before the procedure so I'm guessing the procedure is going to be a great laugh if I need valium. Can't wait.

Then later I thought, hang on, is that genital warts?!

There's my revenge idea sorted. POSTCARD to Msg's work. How are you, hope you're well, I have warts, so now you do too I guess, regards.

I'm happily dating mr canceller tonight but I want to get my licence, buy a car, get a new job and get my polyp removed before I date any shaggable men. Can't cope! Everything's mad atm.

Have a good time tonight!

Actually, I'm looking forward to getting dolled up in the new maroon Ted Baker top I bought because MSG had seen all my going out clothes. I'll feel better with a large glass of vino in my paws.

hmm, the name, if it's american it is to Janet not to Susan right?
That's funny!

You date men with name with beginning with that letter a lot! the writer?

On bus on way home. Mr canceller is a slow mover but that is ok. I like his company. Nice evening good chat. Had a laugh. He tried to shake my hand. Lol.
suits me. I dont wsnt to be rudhed

How'd yours go??

Oh sorry im pissed on bus. I missed that you are with a friend. I couldnt help mentioning msg to mr canceller. He was v undetstanfing and compliment3d me on how normal i was.
i didnt go on and on about it. Briefest mention. He wwas supportive. He said, in a mr seuss rhyme, ive been dumped on a boat on a train on a plane...
funny

I feel like i know mr canceller but more chem with msg.
Geez

I wasnt unhappy on date tho.
certainly did not spend eve thinking of him.

Interested to hear what your friend's thoughts are. Re MTG

All of my friends disapprove of internet dating. I only have one friend (single parent, who gets it, that it's not necessarily self destructive).
I need people who aren't easily shocked but who are perceptive still.
m\r canceller has the same accent as me, my brother, my father....................
Not that he's invited over like

Me too, bad head....
Sounds like a good night.

I wish I could say to friends who tell me not to do internet dating, oh, ok! introduce me to your male sinngle friends instead! That never happens.

I'm feeling a bit sick.
Drank too much wine.
Yuck.

Hanging out the back door wondering if I'm going to chunder tbh.
How embarrassing. (update... I did)

Had a good night with mr canceller. We can talk. But is the sexual chemistry there? Hmm. :-/ Pretty sure he wouldn't cancel me now!

He refered to panicking and disappearing last year. He also said something about 'when' he realised he really liked me. And I like him, but I want to be his friend right now. He's such a slow mover. He won't interfere with my plans.

yes, worry about yourself, indeed! Don't worry about MTG's gf, but she's probably got v low self-esteem. My friend who mmmarried the much older man,she told me it was a low self-esteem thing, and a fear of abandment thing. she thought an old man woudl be grateful... value her.

It didn't work out like that for my friend, he ignored her.
And mtg's gf is played off against other women (from her pof I mean. She was / is with a man twice her age and he still comes and goes, so it shows you what she thinks she deserves!)

Your mum will notice a big difference in you I bet. I hope Brad is good company!

Yes, that'd be a shock, it's kind of weird when you think, I don't know where they live/work anymore...

Date night tonight after a week's holiday

Waving, know you were with MTG so much longer, but I rage now when I think of MSG. I wanted to feel calm bland fondness but I can't.

MSG told me we were walking in a different direction but we never discussed directions so I hate it when people tell you what you think or assume they know
Slept with me after he KNEW he was going to dump me - that feels like a massive violation of my dignity
he went silent on me and was too cowardly to end it (i had to ring him)
his clarifiction to me was self-justification

now I see, the way to go in the future is to ask for a LOT, NOT A LITTLE
Subconsciously WAS I attracted to a man who was basically advertising that he couldn't meet a woman's normal, reasonable needs in a relatonship!

i wanted so little. To see him roughly every five days and for him to text me in the mean time. And he made me feel like that was too much to ask of him. Implied his job/life/kids/time more precious.
I should have listened to the warning signs. Him saying ''*princess doesn't let me have a gf, ha ha ha'''

He jsut wants somebody to shag on saturday night who won't bother him ALL week.

gast sorry about that rant. Enjoy your date tonight.