Morning everyone! So much to catch up on!
Great to see some ol posters back with the new ones, a mixture is always really good on here.
tanya it's lovely to read your updates with cm I miss you on the FB page....
Waves to freaky
314 how are you!
traffic junkie I'm glad to see you here too, I would defo say something to postie I mean why not! Nothing to lose, no harm whatsoever. Wow about the iron having a stroke how awful! Do get back on tinder I met both my recent irons on there and I had successful dates with both..
jubilee tinder is great fun, no wading through a ton of messages from fat and balding 50 years olds, only ones you've actually liked yourself. Plus I find it great fun swiping and a bit of a buzz when you match!
outnumbred shame about the coffee date, but go you with 2 dates in one day! How was last nights one?
ashmts I've missed your story but sounds like you took the bull by the horns and did the right thing by sending that message. How do you feel now?
carrot that is tough, to go from that lovely message one day (how sweet was that) to fading off. But he's on holiday no way of knowing if lack of messaging means anything because it's not normal circumstances so just step away from your phone and keep busy until he comes back. You have date 4? Booked in right? So relax and look forward to that
whatamI ooh your iron pile just grew!! It always seems to work like this, nothing then BOOM a load comes along at once. So exciting! Enjoy and keep us updated
Anyone interested, I had a quick coffee date with a tinder guy a couple of weeks back and didn't feel any spark or chemistry so i sent him a thanks but no thanks message the next day. (He asked me for dinner after which would have been second date) I liked talking to him though, so we carried on messaging every day and fast forward a week I realised I actually really liked this guy! He had such a nice personality, his messaging was brilliant. Funny, consistent and very sweet too. So cut a long story short I asked him out again hoping there would be more (any) spark this time now I knew the person and my feelings had grown towards him. We met up Saturday night and it felt much better this time! Fast forward to the snogging and yes there were definately Sparks this time around! We've had another coffee date Tuesday and 4th date booked in for Saturday when he's going to be staying round...Eeek! Quite a lesson learned for me, you don't always need massive fireworks first meeting and can actually fall for someone's personality! Weird for me but it's going good so far, early days though obviously!