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Why is another woman's debit card in my house?

286 replies

NatashaRomanoff · 01/06/2016 14:23

Please talk me down, I think I'm close to a panic attack.

My husband is away on business today, he will return this evening, so I can't speak to him right now.

This afternoon I have found a debit card in my house (in the living room) behind some furniture that is not mine. It's not my name or anything close to it. We don't know anybody by the name. The piece of furniture was only recently moved and there was nothing there.

So where the fuck did this come from? Please tell me there's a solution that doesn't include him shagging around. He hasn't shown any of the signs - I know them - exH cheated. I'm an absolute mess.

OP posts:
SofiaAmes · 04/06/2016 01:37

Costco takes credit cards (even in the UK), it's just that they only take American Express which isn't so common in the UK. But they're actually switching to Visa in a few weeks.

VladPutin · 09/04/2018 16:37

WELL?

OnTheRise · 09/04/2018 18:14

ZOMBIE THREAD.

Michaela90 · 09/04/2018 20:13

Has your husband had a friend round who is seeing someone with that name and they dropped it out of there pocket it's possible

DumbleDee · 09/04/2018 20:27

Have a look on Linkedin see where she works

poorlyperson · 09/04/2018 20:28

ZOMBIE

What ontherise said!

roses2 · 09/04/2018 20:37

Wow, Apple Pay back in 2016?!

DrFoxtrot · 09/04/2018 22:17

Zombie Thread Grin

But is it nearly TWO YEARS since cancel the cheque? Shock Shock

Thinkingofausername1 · 10/04/2018 17:27

Could your house have been broken into? Have you checked back doors etc! Have you changed the locks since you moved?!

EmmaC78 · 10/04/2018 20:41

I am now wondering if they ever found out how the card got there :)

VladPutin · 10/04/2018 20:59

I want to know.

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