Financial Abuse - AlmostFreeMo - Part 4

[AlmostFreeMo]

Next Fred...

Wow that sounds fab. Even better than a shl and cheaper!

is he going to mediation then ?

hopefully she will tell him he cannot refuse to sell, so he should avoid the court case costs & just accept it, or buy out your share.

do you know when she is likely to contact him, he will be rigid with anger... beware

I'm seeing her after he leaves do we're safe there, Mix. Any messing about, police or injunction please.

I'm beside myself with excitement at the prospect of her putting him in his place.

YAY, POM POMs !

Ffs I haven't given him enough detail, apparently. What a fucking waste of fucking time and energy. I haven't got time for this.

Mo did you tell the SH mediation woman what he wanted from you re the children and the hoops he is making you jump through even now? Can you bcc her the email exchange? xxx

I mentioned him asking for receipts, itemisation and denying access to money. Do you think I should send her some examples? She's away the rest of the week so won't see it anyway until just before our meeting but I can send her whatever she wants to see, I have armloads of examples of twattishness. Would love to hear their conversation.

Fuck I'm angry for you.

What happens if you reply:

For fucks sake, dickhead, these are your CHILDREN. They need money to have a good life. You are not my boss. I am not an employee required to submit my expenses.

Do you know ANYONE else who has this set up???? I don't. Not one single person. This is not normal and it is not acceptable. It is also just 1 of the reasons I am no longer in a relationship with you.

You are their father and I see this as neglect and abuse withholding what they need. You will look absolutely tragic to everyone when it is revealed in court. Just transfer me the money and get over yourself.

I feel such anger on your behalf Mo
Who the actual fuck does he think he is?

Fusion that's brilliant. But it would wash over him.
I'd be laughing if I didn't actually need the money for them.

Yay for mediation women

And a big Ffs at twattycuntychops!

Fusion, you are right....no other SAHP I know has to do this. The only people that have to supply reciepts etc are employees......and even then don't get the scrutiny that Mo gets.

He is a cunt. End. Of.

WTF WTF is he trying to achieve by doing this?! I thought once upon a time he was intelligent. I'm deeply ashamed of him. Deeply.

Mo I would def get copies together asap, paper ones if needed. I know you don't think he can or knows how to do it ( and you may well be right) but suppose your emails got deleted? or your computer/phone "had an accident" or just "disappeared"? If i were in your shoes (which I thank god I am not!) I would get paper copies and put them somewhere very safe then take/send to the SHM?

Ok yes I'll do it. Have printer can do.

That's great about woman. She sounds like knows her shit. Was reading thread when half going off for afn sleep. Then just woke up thought did I imagine it or is it true and checked phone! Great it wasn't a dream!

Sorry he's being true to form at least you tried. If £20 on outing to X why is it so hard for him to just say ok? Not making you beg he wants you to beg properly. Stuff him then hopefully you hear back about benefits soon and you can pay friend back.

Plus it's Irelivant what you spent it on - it's spent. So even if he disapproves it's to late. Unless you agree before hand about no money will be given not much you can do.

Had he at least given money for his share of food this week or gone shopping?

Akire has it. He wants you to beg....it's all about power and control.

Is there anything (jewellery ? ) you could sell to raise the £1000 for SHL - quite frankly the sooner you get rid the better ! I can't believe he wants a breakdown for enetertaingbthe kids FFS !

Mo, what would happen do you think if you actually did exactly what he asked for? Ok a huge pain and absolutely abusive of him to demand it, but lets say you did. Do you think ( or maybe you actually know) that he would then move the goalposts and ask for even more twatty details? Because it might be worth doing this one last time to gather some concrete evidence of exactly what a twatface he is. Do it by email so you have evidence...? And then you might get some money out of him as well (to pay for HIS CHILDREN!!! ffs! )

KOKO and for you xxx

And I do wish you would consider a crowdfund appeal or set up a paypal account - I am sure a few of us would be willing to donate to help you get a SHL - I know I would!

I think your comment about being ashamed of his behaviour is a good one. Worth including in your next email perhaps.

Does he have golf clubs camera etc that you can sell to raise the funds?