Oh, it's not that complex really, despite my endless angsting and over-analysing...
So, we've had 3 dates on 3 subsequent Saturdays. First and second dates were amazing, really couldn't have gone much better. Consistent messaging in between as well as a couple of phone calls. He's Irish and very charming and our style was very bantery, affectionate and flirty. We had a chat before 3rd date and agreed that neither of us was seeing/talking to anyone else. On 3rd date, he stayed at my house and we DTD (badly). He stayed until Sunday afternoon. I told him that I couldn't see him this weekend as I was away with family and we agreed to meet up next Sat.
Since then, his messaging has been totally different. No banter, no affection, no flirts, just basic friendly stuff. And less messages in general, taking ages to respond so we've not really been able to chat.
That's it really! There is a little more back story about why I am so angsty and overinvested but that's the bare bones.
The angst of this week has been all about how I deal with it, i.e. call him on it or wait until Sat when we can do it face to face.
I sent him the breezy (I am beginning to fucking hate that word, by the way!) "I had a fab weekend, how was yours?" message about an hour ago. Two grey ticks, so we'll see...
Yes Sassy seriously! You have no irons cos you binned them all for being rubbish. You're in control! And your post sums up exactly what my mindset needs to be when I talk to him, that's what I need to remember. Maybe, "what would the thread do/say?" would be more appropriate.
Bant Good luck on your date! Did you send the one legged midget text? I would find that funny! I'd also really like to see the new Capt America movie. Love me some Capt America.
314 I don't think you are out of your mind, no! You both know where you stand, why not meet him for a chat? Have fun!