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Sensual Sex

95 replies

purrpussycatpurr · 08/01/2007 18:23

After a lifetime without this a man has come into my life who is sensual. Do you have a sensual partner?

Are they are a rare breed? I am rather taken

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controlfreaky2 · 08/01/2007 18:26

more details please

Kbear · 08/01/2007 18:32

does it mean sex where you have to be awake?

purrpussycatpurr · 08/01/2007 18:32

very sure of himself, very tactile. Delicate while also being assertive.

I am just rather gobsmacked...

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carlsberg · 08/01/2007 18:33

Or sober?

BigHotMama · 08/01/2007 18:35

Lol KBear..

I've only 'done' it twice since my ds was born and he is now 20 weeks old...I've just lost my sex drive completely.

Purrpussycat...I think they are definatley rare...enjoy

purrpussycatpurr · 08/01/2007 18:35

if ya´ll gonna be smart alexs I´ll tell yee nought!

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Kbear · 08/01/2007 18:37

OH I see, sensual rather than bam wham thank you ma'am. Right. Do tell....

LOL at "tell thee nowt".

MamazonAKAfatty · 08/01/2007 18:38

its when they say thank you as well as PLEEEEEASE.

purrpussycatpurr · 08/01/2007 18:45

I feel touched rather than gropped

He overwhelms me with these emotions etc, but at the same time is totally considerate. Normally with guys I am not so horny, but this man makes me want it 24/7

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lou33 · 08/01/2007 18:45

I've got one of these too , heh (smug icon)

wurlywurly · 08/01/2007 18:47

why do you want sensual sex? would rather have it rough

southeastastra · 08/01/2007 18:47

mine is sensual when he wants to be or when i bellow 'slow down ffs' in his ear.

hehe kbear!

lou33 · 08/01/2007 18:47

i can get that too!

Bucketsofdynomite · 08/01/2007 18:52

Yup got one, wouldn't have settled for anything less [smug icon]

purrpussycatpurr · 08/01/2007 18:57

wurlywurly I read your post on the orgasm thread so you can bet what has just crossed my mind

And the good news it is passionate, and abit of both rough and delicate

In fact he the first guy to come close to meeting my somewhat unconventional mindset in the bedouir

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purrpussycatpurr · 08/01/2007 18:58

YAH Bucketsofdynomite and Lou

Is it not the most fabulous way to shag

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wurlywurly · 08/01/2007 20:42

depends on the mood and if the kids are at home as to whether it sensual or rough (or the other!)

lou33 · 08/01/2007 20:53

i have a lock on my bedroom door so that isnt an issue

Dior · 08/01/2007 20:56

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Bucketsofdynomite · 08/01/2007 20:57

My DH says he would never have an affair because the stress of trying to please a whole nother person would take all the fun out of it. I have him utterly convinced he is tailor-made for me (I was his first bless him) but TBH he's so good I'm sure he wouldn't have a problem. Shh, don't tell him

lou33 · 08/01/2007 20:58

lol dior, no, i wont have it for much longer so i'm making the most of it and shouting it as loud as possible!

Dior · 08/01/2007 21:00

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lou33 · 08/01/2007 21:06

i'd prefer a toy over my h as well, lucky me doesnt have to choose that option lol

Caligula · 08/01/2007 21:07

I had a sensual lover when I was 18 and frankly I think it spoiled me for anyone else for years. I expected all men to be like that and was confused and irritated when they weren't.

lou33 · 08/01/2007 21:14

i'm spoiled now, i cant see me being content with anyone else tbh, not in that department anyway

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