FreeMo - Part 3

[AngryMo]

New Fred

Trib - I hardly use text so that's just as well. Certainly not for long conversations.
SIM is same network, same contract, everything.

Could you record all conversations? If he goes bonkers like the other day, you could find the recording useful later.

RunRabbit - I am going to try that actually, have my phone on standby when he enters a room for example. I so wish I had yesterday's bonkers outburst recorded but it was impossible to do subtly.

I guess you don't know if it is the same contract, since it's not your contract. Do you ever see a bill?

I can still get into view bills and contract info on my number. Don't think he realises that though.

Has he plans for Monday? Harder if two oldest are in school And less background stuff at home.

Heh. That's good to know.

On voice recording, there are apps which don't record periods of silence, might be worth having a look around for one like that. Something like this. That way you could leave it running for a while without it recording anything and running out of space.

Trib - that's very clever, thanks

Mo, thank you for clearing up my confusion re the locks.

Your thread has taken a really sinister turn and not sure it was necessary.

Forgot to mention...he had a go about the 'missing' wines too. I just shrugged my shoulders and said they were just bottles of wine and I didn't know they weren't for drinking, in the most casual and nonchalant way I possibly could.

The way he's acting though is consistent with the way he has in emails for the last four months, it's no different really. Makes me realise, hearing him say all this tripe in the flesh, exactly how sick he must be. It's just very chilling to hear it when we're face to face because you'd think seeing each other might humanise and soften things a bit bit nope...not with him. He's completely unhuman.

The wine is just for him to drink then? Least he didn't make a big deal out of it , though what he imagined you were doing with it is beyond me! Well done staying cool And not getting into a row.

It's not like he put 'Prick's wine - do not drink' labels on them. It's MY house FFS.

What's he done for food for everyone today?

Come now, you've never seen the servants on Downton get stuck in to Lord Grantham's vino uninvited, have you? Carson would have a conniption fit. Same thing: know your place.

I have been away for a meager 72 hours and you lot have managed 10 bloomin pages - I mean really? 10 Pages? ha ha

Going to sit down for a catch up in a minute, hope you are okay Mo and from the quick look I just had I really wish there was a like button on mumsnet as I have seen some really good advice

Haha Loubilou...I never wanted my life to become a soap opera!!!
Can't believe I'm going to have to create thread 4 soon...
AlmostFreeMo?

Mo you are doing so well KOKO.

Will he be going into the office whilst here? I only ask, as I think the less time you are around him the better. If he is here on holiday, try and get people to visit, or go out as much as you can.

If he has gone through the cupboards (checking labels ffs), God only knows what he will be checking next! I think this is why PP have suggested that he may go through phone records etc. Keep deleting and make calls to the police etc on that other phone. Any chance you could borrow money to buy a cheap Pay as you go smart phone?

Almost free mo sounds great. Amazing only a few generations ago this sort of thing was more or less the norm. Housewife had no idea of how much husband earned- no one would even employ married woman and if you got all house keeping without it being pissed up the wall or getting battered now and again you were on to a good thing.

Shame his brain seems to have a fault that can't see how last 60y have provided social evolution.

Trust me Phoenix, I've been out all day since he's been here, bar popping back if for things (hence when he's confronted me).
I have an emergency PAYG phone.
At times like this you really know who your friends are and by golly...there are some awesome human beings on this planet.

So pleased you are doing this and have a PAYG too.

KOKO....KOKO.

I hope that you have a calendar and are putting a big Red Cross through each day closer to his return

KOKO

You are doing so well and are completely awesome

KOKO is keep on keeping on incase anyone else was like me and hasn't googled it yet! learn something everyday

Ha, love the reply about the wine !
I mean had he really counted the bottles ?

Mo, another more lurker then poster here. You are amazing, he is an absolute prick.

After he went out to play golf yesterday I'd have been changing the locks.

Your thread makes for jaw dropping reading. I have been here since the start and you are doing brilliantly.

Your children are very lucky that they have a fab mother who more than makes up for the fact that their dad is a complete waste of space.

Rooting for you all the way. , I'd love to see his face if you casually opened a bottle of 'his' wine in front of him and had a glass, made a face and just left it.