Yeh, Handy I was trying to discuss it with a friend last night but she said ''oh would you stop quoting cosmo". I had something about a high value woman.
Handy, I'd send an enigmatic one, ''things are looking up on the Handy front". He might think you mean because he texted you though. Hmmm.
Mr Big = big nose I bet!!
Can I talk about Six Degrees of Separation ? I feel a little bit discombobulated following a connection I discovered last night whilst fb snooping . You think you're dating a totally random stranger and it turns out that that person has a connection to your real people real life. 
It's happened to me twice now what's weird is that both times the connection has been the same man!! I had this teenage boyfriend who I shall call Caravaggio, who turned out to be gay. But we were like bonnie and clyde for about five years. I sent Caravaggio an incredibly angry, pompous, judgemental and sanctimonious letter when I was about 22 haven't heard from him since. Chatting about life and youth with Bear, it turned out that Bear's xgf is friends with Caravaggio. 
So, that was months ago, I'm over that shock, my Mum told me that caravaggio was returning to our home town because he owns a house here. I was scrolling through Caravaggio's FB friends list
when who should I spot on his list but Mr Canceller's sister.
The weird thing is that Caravaggio only has 51 people on his list so he's obviously cautious about who he lets on. They're mostly cousins, close friends, his brother, sister, bIl and sil etc.
Sorry, that is nothing to do with dating really. More just a feeling that the universe is telling me I need to iron out the wrinkle in my conscience. I need to approach Caravaggio the next time I see him in the distance and apologise for sending him such a pompous judgemental letter 20+ years ago. He won't care, but still. It's a wrinkle i can't smooth out for me.