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How DARE he? Ar$e is too mild now - I am FUMING!!!

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essbee · 21/05/2004 18:00

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jmg1 · 21/05/2004 18:04

so sorry essbee, does he fancy doing dome kickboxing I could do with a new punch bag.

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essbee · 21/05/2004 18:06

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suzywong · 21/05/2004 18:07

Take a deep breath, pour a glass of wine and think....
Where is his weak spot? What can you get access of his that would devastate him equally? You are a clever person, you will think. Don't forget revenge is a dish best served cold.

Piffleoffagus · 21/05/2004 18:07

I'm ready to flay him in memory of how many CD/lp or cassette collections that were wiped out by exp's
WANKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wobblyknicks · 21/05/2004 18:07

OMG - essbee you've got to get yourself down to the solicitors pronto!!! I'll drag you there myself if I have to!!! What a prat!!! Hope you're ok - pc is still playing up so can't be on here too much and can't get on msn but if you need anything, ring me.

Piffleoffagus · 21/05/2004 18:08

revenge is dish best served on the end of a red hot poker as it is heading up his arse...

Kayleigh · 21/05/2004 18:11

oh essbee, that's horrible. mean and petty.
think it's time to get legal honey.

Janstar · 21/05/2004 18:13

Surely you have some redress here. I agree, down to the solicitors with you. Make a list. You can't be expected to have him in the house at all if he is going to steal from you.

I would take him to the cleaners if at all possible. These people must not be allowed to think they can get away with it.

jmg1 · 21/05/2004 18:14

I know some rather unpleasant characters from the east end who would get them back for you, with a few extras if you like!

wobblyknicks · 21/05/2004 18:17

jmg - his vital parts boxed and gift-wrapped would be a good extra if possible

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essbee · 21/05/2004 18:18

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wobblyknicks · 21/05/2004 18:18

GOOD FOR YOU - about time!!!

baldrick · 21/05/2004 18:20

Hi essbee, how did he react to that?

baldrick · 21/05/2004 18:21

I mean has he now gone for good, bloomin well hope so for yours and your dc sake

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essbee · 21/05/2004 18:24

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misdee · 21/05/2004 18:25

will he bringing the cd's back? if he does take them and slam the door in his face. if he causes a fuss then call the police.

Janstar · 21/05/2004 18:25

Don't even open the door and give him a chance to barge in. talk through a small window or the letter box.

baldrick · 21/05/2004 18:26

you tell him

wobblyknicks · 21/05/2004 18:27

Talk to him from an upstairs window - and accidentally forget to mention you're chucking out some sewage at the same time.

misdee · 21/05/2004 18:28

i'd throw out a chest of drawers. onto his head!

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essbee · 21/05/2004 18:28

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SoupDragon · 21/05/2004 18:29

B*gger - can't come round as support cos DH is not home - out drinking!

wobblyknicks · 21/05/2004 18:30

You're NOT stupid - he's just a twat.

So if that works for CD's I'm assuming he's not going to push for access - seeing as you're the only good parent the kids must automatically be yours then.

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essbee · 21/05/2004 18:34

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wobblyknicks · 21/05/2004 18:35

There you go then - let him have the CD's - sounds like a fair swap!!