Ooh, amazing outfit Eloquent.
Aye, so it's been a bit of a week since last Friday, had a flu bug, bedridden all weekend with a 39 degree temperature, thank goodness for self sufficient children, and their dad looked after them on Sunday. Was down at our head office on Monday, flew back same day, got in at 9pm, sat down to have some toast and tea, then my elder littlie threw up in the sink before I could have a bite. Naturally I was also sick yesterday, so absolutely drained. Also got sad news about a family friend on Monday, so men have been off the agenda. It made me reassess what's important, and suddenly trying to get the approval of complete strangers on dating sites as to whether I'm pretty / clever / whatever enough just seemed so pointless and trivial. I've shut down OKC and GSM, have a subscription on Match, so leaving it to run, and a couple of matches on Tinder, but not pursuing anything very actively as feeling a bit too wobbly this week.
On Tinder, quite funny Irish chap, similar circumstances to mine, and a bizarre one this morning that hasn't yet passed my BS detector "I'm so glad we matched, you look sensational." Can't be done with hyperbole, and, well, I'm not sensational. And apparently I "should let other people be the judge of that." Errr, no. I'll let him run his course as he's tall and has a decently written profile, but my radar is on full alert.
Still mild hankering after Bee, but have been quite disciplined, despite my wobbly week. We've exchanged a few texts, but I've been distant enough.
Northerner has been moaning to me about his disastrous dating life, because the woman he went on a date with after we had a falling out at that party in December, only wanted to be friends with him. 
Will catch up properly with your progress tonight! xx