Wow Handy, sounds great! It is scary when you feel like you could fall for a man. Glad there's a second date planned!
tanyadm sorry to hear you've had bad news.
coalfire you can 'spark' a bit more interest with new photos and viewing profiles. To quote the marvellous Twinklestein, there are thousands of men on the internet who only want to date a much younger woman, but most of those men are at home making mashed potato for one. That made me laugh so much. Just be patient....
I asked H if he was seeing anybody else, he's not, phew, couldn't have handled that, and he said that he wouldn't want to jeopardise 'this' by seeing somebody else! So luckily, although we're just going with the flow, he said he thinks we have potential to be happy together. I think that too if I could just remember not to worry. (It'll either work, or it won't work. None of it is a potential disaster. So phew, that's that analysed) He's going back to Ihome for five days now so I won't see him for a while but I feel quite chilled. Terrified but OK. Oh yeh, I told him that I hadn't really had a relationship where I felt there was 'risk' for a long time. I don't think he completely gets it. All of his relationships have been from the heart or not at all. I have been a very weird person with a bizarre relationship history up til now.