Can I get a male perspective on porn?

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What part does it play in your life? If you're in a relationship do you still use it? Do you hide it from your partner? I'm just interested to know , and this is to do with my own self confidence - do the women in porn 'stick' in your head, or are they just images that you forget about moments later?
Do the women have to be stunning or is it more about the bodies and what's happening?
How does this affect how you feel about your OH?
I know how I feel about it, I don't watch it but if I did, and I have done in the past - the people in it made no difference to me, I couldn't have cared less but I know some people take it more seriously - having favourite stars for instance..
Sry for all the questions

No real interest in Porn at all. I like pictures of beautiful naked women as much as the next man but I don't go looking for them and for videos who wants to watch someone with such a big penis he can't sustain a proper erection abuse women until the milk cannon is turned on at the end?

I agree AF, the boundaries have moved considerably.

My ex and I, educated our son and daughter regarding sex. The external influences are a massive. Including the likes of Cosmoplitan = how to be hot in bed.

I have had 3 sexual partners since I ended my long term relationship. Two of the men, in their 40s had engaged in anal sex in the past.
Neither tried to coercive me into anal sex. I am not entirely sure if either of them understood the pressure on women today, directly or indirectly.
I hope they do now.

I tried it twice with my partner of over 20 years, about 10 years in, so trust was established. I was curious. We both agreed, for us. It added nothing.

CoteDAzur

You could have a lower case 'd'. Of course, you don't have to. You can be as inventive as you want with your username. I was just pointing out that you were very critical of an other user for doing the same thing.

Yes, and then most people would see/shorten my nickname as Coted.

Hard as it may be for you to believe, I have actually thought about this

What has clearly passed over your head is that I pointed out OP's glaring French mistake in her nickname after she attacked another MNer in a condescending manner with "Have you not been through school?".

If that has satisfied your curiosity about my name, maybe you can now try to contribute something to the thread.