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Support thread for old

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kateshair · 18/10/2015 08:42

Hi all I've done old for a year now.
Have experienced highs and lows several lows !!
Had dates with no connection whatsoever regardless of getting on well via the site. Had a date with bang instant chemistry. Had dates that have turned into a relationship (so I thought ) only to have then simply disengage with me...
I'm coming close to pulling the plug on it all. Not sure it helps that I'm the ripe old age of 40.. Last time I was single was 29 and within six months had meet someone ...
Am finding the men on old go for or hope to go for women ten years younger than them..
What do you all think...
Would be nice to have a place to vent and discuss this all. The dating thread seems to be quiet of late..

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kateshair · 15/11/2015 09:37

Hi there all !
Just thought I'd try and re ignite this thread. waving and Autumn how is it all going ?
elementary how about you too ?
Well for me I'm still dating mr nice. Hmm think we're on date nine now ? Still not had the exclusive chat !! Need to establish that soon otherwise what's the point ? I've come of the old site now it ran out the membership so it's partly financial ! Also though can only date one at a time - that's maybe just me ?. Think will mention this to him test the water.. Good luck to all those doing this !

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WavingNotDrowning · 16/11/2015 07:25

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darlingish · 19/11/2015 22:37

I've been seeing a man for about 9 months now and both of us 18 months out of a 25 year marriage .
I have the odd night with no dc but for us neither of us feel at all comfortable DTD in ex marital homes which we both live in still .
We go for long walks dinner holodays and occasional nights away . the nights away are totally fab because we're still getting to know each other and its best sex ever .
It will be differrent when I have a new house ( he lives mostly abroad anyway ) but then if we are still dating in a year when I'm in new house I'd happily have him stay over when dc aren't here .
Enjoy the romance of the early part of relationship .

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