but pregnancy hormones can undoubtedly change the way you think/feel/react to things
He cheated on her at her most vulnerable. He is about to become a dad again, and he let his dick & mind wonder elsewhere instead of being caught up in the magical time with his wife.
Too bloody right she needs to think hard about this.
but it's a big deal that you may initially still react completely differently to when pg I too think that you would react differently when NOT pregnant, but in the opposite way. If this has been discovered when op was not pregnant, she may have felt that it was more minor than it is, but a guy who is prepared (even emotionally) to cheat on his pregnant wife is, imo a special kind of twat.
And with all due respect, we aren't talking about you. We don't all react the same way during pregnancy.
This texting lark has a lot to answer for! The number of posts I have read where a flirty silly childish remark made on a text has rocked a relationship is growing daily People need to be a little bit more responsible & committed, it's hardly the fault of a piece of technology, or the ability to send electronic messages, which has been happening way longer than the dawn of the text (email?) and before that it was letters...so yeah, it's the people not the method they use.
I honestly think that social media flirting is causing a lot of relationship problems as it is so easy to get caught doing it ... What you don't know about can't hurt you!! Hmm, I think, once again, that the problem is the person. Nothing to do with being too easy to get caught!! Rather sounds like you are justifying what the dh did here, with your remarks. I don't think it's fair of you to be posting things like that on a thread where op is looking for support!!
I woudn't throw away a marriage over it I think op's dh has already pretty much done that, don't you?