He tried to put all the blame on me.
How he's wonderful handsome fun etc and I'm a frumpy drudge, you get the drift.
Totally unbelievable.
Confessed about one before this, that I had suspicions about first of all.
You couldn't make it up.
He actually used the line
'She wanted to get to know me better
What to expect now.
Expect more of the same as he attempts to justify himself while denying that he alone is responsible for his despicable behaviour.
He's absolutely terrified of you having the upper hand, and he's shit scared of being made the laughing stock he will become once the news gets out - leaf through your address book while musing out loud as to who to needs to know that your marriage is over because of his affair(s).
Silence is golden; let him do the talking as you listen with an amused smile on your face when it suits you to do so, and shut him up with a 'save it for your solicitor' when it doesn't.
You not only have the advantage; you've effectively won hands down and he knows it, which is why he'll come up with even more ludicrous explanations for his conduct before resorting to tears and pleading.
Book yourself an appointment at the hairdressers and invest in a professional make up session to ram home the fact that your discovery has given you a new lease of life and you can't wait to embrace a future without him in it. 