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He used me for sex :-( feel so sad

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Confused2015xxx · 03/08/2015 16:32

A man persued my for years .
Charming and I was really attracted to him .
We text all the time and got on well .
Two weeks ago he came to mine and we had some drinks .We got on so well and really clicked .
I was just finishing my period and wasn't planning on having sex but he convinced me .
Anyway since he's hardly gave me the time of day .
He sent me a few messages but doesn't seem bothered about having a convo with me .
He told me he he loved me and stupidly I believed him .
We have known each other years .
I text Him 4 hours ago and no reply .
What did I do wrong ?
I feel really sad :-(
I'm not normally this stupid and niaeve but I hand on heart thought it was genuine .

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Offred · 04/08/2015 13:35

And off he will fuck to sit in his bedroom playing Xbox and drinking with his friends and not bothering to be a dad...

LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:37

He said he loved me. He said he couldn't feel anything with a condom. He said he would take care of me. He said he wouldn't come inside. He said I probably wouldn't be pregnant. He said it probably wasn't his anyway. He said I was trying to trap him. He said I was a grasping slag.

And so on.

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:39

Nah, all that would burst the bubble of Mr Noble. He won't need to do it anyway because the op loves him and therefore she can't ask him to wear a condom and doesn't need to because she just knows, him being such a stand up guy and all, she doesn't need to - because that's how you avoid pregnancy and STIs - love.

LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:40

Or you do it standing up.

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:41

Or 'by mistake'. Twice.

LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:42

Ah yes. It's like calories. If you didn't mean to eat the chocolate or do it before somebody sees, the calories don't count.

Notnowdarling01 · 04/08/2015 13:43

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LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:45

Just out of interest, OP, did you know that up to 300 million - that's MILLION - sperm are released when a man comes. If you did it twice, that's 600 million sperm up your unguarded chuff. Good luck :)

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LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:48

Wonder what they do up there, all that time?

LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:50

I reckon they go egg-hunting. Come on chaps, it's this way!

Mind you, if the shitwankstain spends most of his time on his x-box, they are probably really lazy and just wait for the egg to come to them.

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:50

They die off one by one.

I was winding my BF up the other day saying his sperm currently live an entirely pointless existence of misguided excitement followed by death... That's what I like to imagine anyway Grin

He felt tight on them and wanted a hug Grin

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LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:52

600 million is ten times the population of the UK. All up your chuff bits.

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:53

"Yeah! Yeah! Come on guys! I'm definitely gonna be the one that finds that little eggy fucker!!!! Woooo!"

"Oh... Fuck."

notrocketscience · 04/08/2015 13:53

OP The reason everyone gets fed up with you or starts taking the mickey is because you;

  1. Don't care what we say
  2. You are desperate for him to call. text, shag you ect.
  3. You believe he loves you but his mean gf has deliberately had a baby to keep him. (Yeah lots of us do that. Right?)
  4. You KOKO coming on a predominantly parenting site acting like a spoilt and quite stupid 14 year old.
  5. You want some one to say this so I will do it for you.

Oh OP how terrible, how could she (gf) do this to him? I mean she trapped him by having his baby (if it was his, cos he says it might not be). Of course he loves you and no one else. He's longed to be with you for years and years (even between other girls and when he was single) but he couldn't because he says "You are too important to him and too special". These mean mums on here don't understand true love because they have never met him. Just you wait out darling because he will ring or text and you will be together forever and ever and all will be sooo perfect for you. Can I come to the wedding? Or the christening whichever comes first...

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:54

Don't know why but I also imagined them saying "lying bitch" then... So as well as imagining all the sperm as male I imagine they are all sexist pigs too... Interesting boring and irrelevant psychology isn't it?

LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:55

Sperm are not male? I thought they were too...

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:56

Maybe the girls ones are just those 'cool gf' types who would also say 'lying bitch' to keep in with the guys...

That ties up the loose ends nicely.

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:58

Or 'Butch' lesbians?

Offred · 04/08/2015 13:58

Maybe Seth McFarlane could make a cartoon about it... That'd settle it.

LoisPuddingLane · 04/08/2015 13:59

Definitely. :)

oreorocks · 04/08/2015 14:17

half the sperm are female, half are male
as you were chaps

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Offred · 04/08/2015 14:24

Ha ha ha ha ha! Excellent. Have you explained to him his 50/50 lady and chap sperm are living a pointless existence of misguided excitement followed by death?! I'm tempted to explain it to all men who have female partners and are using contraception.

I imagine the condom issue provoking "yes! Here we go! Oh what's this? No! Fuck! Why?! Stupid dick what's he done now?"