He used me for sex :-( feel so sad

[Confused2015xxx]

A man persued my for years .
Charming and I was really attracted to him .
We text all the time and got on well .
Two weeks ago he came to mine and we had some drinks .We got on so well and really clicked .
I was just finishing my period and wasn't planning on having sex but he convinced me .
Anyway since he's hardly gave me the time of day .
He sent me a few messages but doesn't seem bothered about having a convo with me .
He told me he he loved me and stupidly I believed him .
We have known each other years .
I text Him 4 hours ago and no reply .
What did I do wrong ?
I feel really sad :-(
I'm not normally this stupid and niaeve but I hand on heart thought it was genuine .

Why are u so involved with his mum that she's ring you ?? Does she know what he has done ?

He's not even looking after the baby though. He's using the baby to manipulate you into fucking him and not asking for respect and he's living off his GF's services whilst hanging out in his bedroom like a teenager drinking and playing with his mates and staying out all night so he can fuck someone else.

I await the pregnancy announcement

it'll be twins, no doubt

It suits him to stay with the GF and have OW on the side. I do not believe you are the first or only either.

I know his dad left when he was a baby and he told me he didn't want to become that man.
His dad was a cheat.
Maybe its genetic.
I do feel like shit.

You're STILL pursuing this man??? For fucks sake.

I don't think being a shit is genetic. He and he alone is responsible for this cock salad.

My best friend is the guys sister.
My mum and my friends mum were best friends too.
When we were kids we used to all hang out together and go on holiday together as family's.
I'm close to his mum as she was my mums best friend.

Ha AF! I've searched her username and think she's genuine unfortunately!

Given he didn't bother using a condom with you op despite cheating on his GF so pg being hugely undesirable and apparently having been 'tricked' into one baby I call bullshit on his story of Mr Noble...

I don;t know why you're even posting. You've made three threads about this situation and each time you have ignored everything people have said and fell into the situations that people predicted.

In the next exciting installment...

my period is late so I can't block him, I have to be in touch with him to work out what to do - despite being told by hundreds of posters on her previous thread to go get the MAP, and her reply, "I won't get pregnant, I know that I don't ovulate that early".

She said to me " I don't want to know what's going on,tell him to F off and don't get used"

^I know his dad left when he was a baby and he told me he didn't want to become that man.
His dad was a cheat.
Maybe its genetic.^

FULL HOUSE!!!

Listen love, they all say that... Whilst it may be true that it could be a factor in his behaviour it is still entirely down to him and his choices and it doesn't absolve him of responsibility.

Stop. Making. Excuses.

Unless you really do want to be destroyed (and complicit in destroying his DC and GF's lives).

mmm hm and did you? Cos if his mum is telling you to fuck him off, he's really a lump of shit.

I can post what I like.
Don't reply,don't read it then.
No ones forcing you are they.

oh here we go with the passive aggressiveness.

Yes, you can post what you like. Equally we can respond how we like. Nobody is being mean (except shit dick fuck wanker) we just want you to see sense.

Do you really believe that this is a poor guy who has no control over his life and his choices? A. That's not reasonable given he is a 33 year old man and B. He's still behaving like a shit and he is a shit that you have no reason to be involved with.

by whom I mean the "boyfriend" but you all new that

Someone has just commented " why are you posting "
I've simply said I can post what I like,if you don't like it and it's annoying you I posted.
Don't reply

KNEW. Oh fuckadoodle.

Oh give over.

There is no point is there? You just want people to watch this car crash. You're liking the attention you're getting, the next instalment of your self destruction.

You don't listen to advice. You aren't honest with yourself or us.

Well its certainly keeping me entertained
*place-marking

I want advice because I'm trying to claw back a little of self respect.

It's a fair enough thing to ask IMO OP. You are asking for sympathy/help, in this thread you have gone about it in a manipulative way. In past threads you were given sympathy and help which you chose to ignore and now you want to get more sympathy/help which you are still ignoring. It's not unreasonable to ask why you are doing that or why you feel entitled to keep on trying to use up other people's emotional resources when you aren't willing to solve your own problem yourself - is it?

If people don't like it, yeah they are free to post but if people don't like what you post and are pissed off about being manipulated and exploited into giving sympathy to a less than genuine poster then they are also free to do that. Asking what you get out of this whole thing however is quite a way away from that - it's something I've wondered myself since it is in the main negative attention you are getting here.

Is it masochism?

Nah, the next thread will be about not understanding why the gf is being mean. Why the gf has just been round and either threatened to kick her head in, or there was a fight. And now everything ops sees her gf shouts out insults. But we should be getting on, our babies are siblings.