VERY late to the party tonight...just got DS into bed, I fucking HATE post contact evenings, it's always a bloody nightmare. Mr WT, of course, has no clue about any of this. I am sure it must be lovely to hand your child back twice a week and forget about him until the next visit and not have to deal with the nightmares you have inflicted on him. Anyway, having been accused over and over of "grilling" DS when he returns from contact (I never have actually, he is wholly mistaken, even my inlaws will vouch for that), it is of no surprise when he suddenly decides to impart his four year old version of what he's done with Daddy. Today, it seems, was spent taking one of OW's horses to the vet in a horsebox using the "big car". Given Mr WT posted on here last night that he could never make up for what he has done to his son, it is ironic that he spends his very limited contact doing "chores" with OW. I do wonder how she would ever have managed without my hero husband. 11 hours of contact a week...at his request...that is what he asked for...and he's busy with horses and vets. Lovely.
Anyway, on a happier note, I have had a really lovely and relaxing day with my man. He lives blissfully isolated and I love being there. DD spent the night with my Dad and step-mum last night, having had a visit to the Harry Potter Studios on Friday night (I thought she was a bit old for all that shizzle but she loved it). Next weekend she is attending her first festival, Wireless, it's one extreme to the other! I am a bit nervous about that but she will be in a huge group and my cousin lives very nearby if there is an emergency...I guess as she approaches adulthood, I have to cut the strings a little!
So tomorrow I have to answer bail for my "harassment" at 12. I feel nonplussed about it really. What will be will be. I think the fact that my husband has to run to the police every time I challenge him or point out his failings in life is utterly pathetic for an adult male. Indeed, they both decided to make such a song and dance about it that when they wrote to the court claiming contempt in terms of these very threads, OW stated that I was "serving" a "five week bail term". Good God! I also know that their claims that the police are treating my MN threads as evidence in part of a "wider investigation into my harassment" are absolute nonsense and I have that from the horses interviewing officer's mouth. Really, it is "form" to use the word "alleged"...however, I have been tried and convicted by husband and OW already and very publicly so. I have made it clear to the police that I am happy to be charged and go to trial. I really am. Still, we will know tomorrow.
Would also like to extend a huge thank you to the lurkers who have come out and posted after yesterday's shenanigans! I cannot tell you how much I appreciate it! You are all wonderful...old friends and new...and I will always be grateful! 
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In other news, I've bought a bike 