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Desperately Trying to Move On - My Divorce from Mr WT Part 3 - It's Nearly OVER!

751 replies

TheFormidableMrsC · 24/06/2015 22:05

I am so grateful to all of those who have followed and supported me throughout this bloody ordeal! I hope this will be the last one.one and it will be over very soon! Thread 1 : www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2030270-PLEASE-HELP-DESPERATE-AND-AWFUL-DIVORCE?
Thread 2 : www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2137545-Whos-Desperate-and-Awful-Now-Story-of-My-Divorce-from-Mr-WT-Part-2

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Noctilucent · 26/06/2015 19:02

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pointythings · 26/06/2015 19:05

Nocti if you read the previous thread then clearly the harassment thing is a red herring and MrsC has not been banned from posting - she would have had this thread pulled otherwise. This is just Mr C stamping his feet and going 'It's not fair!!!' Grin

MrsC if you feel you need to start again elsewhere, please do. The team will find you.

HootyMcTooty · 26/06/2015 19:06

Wow MrC, I haven't posted on these threads before but I feel compelled to here. I think you just proved everything that MrsC has said about you. You really are low.

RaptorInaPorkPieHat · 26/06/2015 19:08

I've reported too.

I'm a lurker more than anything, but I won't stand back and watch MrsC hounded and harassed on here.

HootyMcTooty · 26/06/2015 19:09

Reported also.

ptumbi · 26/06/2015 19:10

(Ps MrsC can not respond as she's on bail for Harassment" - nope. It's an anonymous forum, you have no proof that MrsC is in any way known to you.

She can post whatever she likes. About her ds, ASD in general, her divorce, her position in general, and there is not a damn thing you or anyone can do about it.

Personally I hope she does continue to post.

Slidingintoindifference · 26/06/2015 19:11

MrC, I also haven't posted on these threads before ... but, you just made it obvious what sort of person you are.

Best wishes MrsC Flowers

TheFormidableMrsC · 26/06/2015 19:11

Goodness me! This is a surprise! My husband knows full well that everything in every thread is absolutely true and how he has behaved. You all know that I am on bail, to be answered on Sunday. There are no sides to this story and every last bit of treatment that has been meted out to the children and I is unforgiveable.

Good ladies of Mumsnet, Mr WT has entered the building...and he will not stop me posting on my own thread!

I will leave it up to all of you whether to report...

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Slidingintoindifference · 26/06/2015 19:13

Bravo MrsC! Wine

butterflygirl15 · 26/06/2015 19:14

Well MrC what are your reasons for posting here? Because if you think all the support MrsC has received is going to be given to you then you are gravely mistaken. I would think the only reason you came here is to bully, harass and intimidate which makes you look not very decent at all don't you think?

Weebirdie · 26/06/2015 19:15

Well, it was bound to happen and Im surprised its taken so long to be frank.

I think he/she is best ignored.

Noctilucent · 26/06/2015 19:16

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Tutt · 26/06/2015 19:16

Lurked but feel I have to add my voice in support for MrsC.
Wrong for the STBXH to comment, form of bullying and smacks of control... wont happen we are all grown ups and can make up our own minds.
So Concept ( can't bear to put Mr) if you really aren't a bully or controlling then you leave the safe haven that you forced this lady to rely on and bow away gracefully!

Weebirdie · 26/06/2015 19:18

Dont respond to he/she, don't engage at all, just totally ignore him/her.

ptumbi · 26/06/2015 19:18

I'm sure MrWT thought he'd come on and throw his willy weight around and we'd all shrivel off to clean behind the fridge...

Oh dear.
Grin

concept2000 · 26/06/2015 19:24

Cleared up sick ?
my son covered from his face to his shoes in sick, He did not speak or cry. He was white and distressed. I removed my son from the car at this stage he was in some distress, now being sick because he's got sick on him, he's white as sheep. I had to remove all his clothes and clean him down and carm him down by the side of the road. I yes passed him to his mum on return because he was unwell perhaps I should have dropped him at the end of the road. Its nice to see all your mums find it so funny. Sick on his car seat ? My poor little man was unwell and covered in sick, upset and you find time comment on sick in my car. I hope you show the same concern to your children when there unwell. I have failed my son as a Dad and I attempt to make up for that twice and yes I will never make up for it, Yes I can never make up for what I have done to my son but thats between me and him. please reframe from discussing my son, even more when he's unwell, you see laptop screens I had to see him distressed and upset , it was not funny. Sick on the car seat ?

reredos1 · 26/06/2015 19:29

We have to encourage Mr WT. He really doesn't get it. There isn't any way for him to really get the awful truth about how bad he is. However it will encourage loads of support for Mrs C and, after reading his stuff, she needs and deserves it.

SylvaniansAtEase · 26/06/2015 19:31

The phrase is 'white as a sheet', not 'white as sheep'

And the word you were looking for is 'refrain', not 'reframe'

Also, instead of 'Dad', the word you should be using is 'tosspot'.

HTH

thelonggame · 26/06/2015 19:32

another lurker coming out of the shadows to send you Flowers and Wine or Brew MrsC.
I thought I'd seen it all....

TheFormidableMrsC · 26/06/2015 19:32

I can assure everybody he's drunk....

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reredos1 · 26/06/2015 19:32

Isn't it contempt of court to incite someone to break an undertaking? I mean, going into a space where they are known, interrupting a conversation and trying to force the respondent into replying?

KatieScarlettreregged · 26/06/2015 19:34

Oh bore off you sad, inadequate little man.

shadowfax07 · 26/06/2015 19:34

Shuffles in, shamefacedly, always late. Blush

Hello, MrsC! Grin

Tutt · 26/06/2015 19:36

The only way an absent parent can ever make up the grief and loss they have caused a child is to make the resident parent happy!
By giving the resident parent the help both monetary, emotionally and physically that they need... if you just keep putting obsticles in the way, keep taking to court, object to each and every thing, cause undue stress and unhappiness then that has a detrimental effect on that child's home life then you are failing in your duty as a parent ... quite simple really.

FryOneFatManic · 26/06/2015 19:40

Oh, here's another lurker coming with Thanks

Wishing you all the best, Mrs C.