Desperately Trying to Move On - My Divorce from Mr WT Part 3 - It's Nearly OVER!

[TheFormidableMrsC]

I am so grateful to all of those who have followed and supported me throughout this bloody ordeal! I hope this will be the last one.one and it will be over very soon! Thread 1 : www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2030270-PLEASE-HELP-DESPERATE-AND-AWFUL-DIVORCE?
Thread 2 : www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2137545-Whos-Desperate-and-Awful-Now-Story-of-My-Divorce-from-Mr-WT-Part-2

what about the upset you caused to your wonderful and impressive wife by being an unfaithful, cheating, abusive arse? How is that ever ok. You could spend the next thousand years apologising to her and it would never be enough would it.

An utter disgrace of a man and a foul human being. Don't pretend to be father of the year. You weren't thinking of your DS when you were having it away with old horse features were you? Bit late to pretend your priority is your child isn't it?

*The irony of an ex husband coming on a board where his ex wife posts for support and the ex wife being on bail for harassment^

I love a bit of irony me - can't help but make me chuckle. I also like to chuckle in inappropriate places - I really am someone who shouldn't go to funerals.

Or court houses for that matter.

Because sometimes people never fail to entertain do they?

I mean, I should clarify that MrsC is one hilarious woman. She has a wicked chuckle. It's infectious when she gets going. In fact, she should come with a health warning - likely to make even the saddest person laugh until they are sick.

Talking of being sick, you can't help feel sorry for parents when their little ones are sick. I mean it's bound to happen once in a while, y'know, 'cos little peeps do get sick. Not that you ever read of a poster demanding sympathy for the distress it's caused them witnessing their child being violently ill...but maybe one day someone's utter self-centred deludedness will astonish me.

But rarely do people astonish me. And if they do, I say so. I'm good like that.

Anyway, it's been a rather underwhelming day. Despite my best efforts at harrassing MrsC via text, email and telephone, the silly mare has had me chuckling away like a complete loon. Seriously, what can I do to upset her?

Please help.

I have failed my son as a Dad and I attempt to make up for that twice and yes I will never make up for it, Yes I can never make up for what I have done to my son but thats between me and him

What you have done to your son is far from being a matter between you and him, MrC, because history will judge you for generations to come as your dcs will tell ltheir dcs about their father.

Did you read about the effect your petty minded spiteful complaint to the police had on your son when his mother was arrested for alleged harassment before his very young eyes?

Have you got any idea of the needless emotional damage you've done to him by this act alone and the subsequent trauma he's gone through as a result of your fit of pique?

If you had any intention of adding to the 'twice' you've attempted to make up to your son for your failures, you would have withdrawn your complaint the following day and sent an abject note of apology to your ds's mother with an assurance that you will never seek to avenge your inadequacies on her again.

As it is, should MrsC be charged with harassment on Sunday you will discover that your name, together with that of your current squeeze, won't merely be confined to being mud on this forum and you will be far too occupied with damage limitation in your rl to waste our your time here.

Note to other responders: Purely in the interests of research into what makes twunts tick, imo MrC should be given a platform here until such time as we collectively tell him to fuck off he has served his purpose as he sure hasn't got any in the real world.

Concept2000
Nobody found your son being sick funny - as you know. You've deliberately twisted the facts there. What we were laughing at was that parental frustration at trying to get the sick smell out of a car when your kids have thrown up in it. And the poetic justice of that given how you've treated your ex wife.

Its interesting that you are so interested in what your ex wife is up to on this board? If you're in a new relationship and very much in love, why on earth would you be worrying about what your ex wife was saying and doing?? Strange.

But post away, you're as entitled to your opinion and to be heard as is Mrs C. And everyone on here is entitled to give their opinion too.

I hadn't intended to post again this evening, I felt better to step away for now as I know that my husband's decision to post on the thread would arouse many responses. However, I would like to make a point about one thing. My husband has never had to deal with our son being ill and hence I imagine that Wednesday's experience was very distressing for him, I do totally understand that. However, he should realise that actually I have had to deal with that sort of thing quite a lot. Not least when DS contracted quite possibly the worst case of chickenpox I have ever seen shortly after his father vacated the building. I would post an utterly shocking photo of my sick son but that would not be the right thing to do. However, he was busy having a lovely holiday away with OW and his only contribution to that was asking me to send him photos of DS. It didn't appear to matter a jot that I also had been struck down with gastroenteritis. All of you will know what a nightmare that would have been. Latterly, I accidently stood back on my son's foot while carrying a huge load of washing and trying to open a door. An evening in A&E ensued, no fun on a Friday night. I did text husband to tell him where I was. His response was to text in the morning and tell me he'd pick DS up at 10.00 am. So while he was distressed dealing with a shedload of vomit for about 10 minutes...he should appreciate that as a single parent to two children, I deal with a shedload more day in and day out....without any support. This is what being a parent is about.

"I hope you show the same concern to your children....."

Oh we WILL and we DO, unlike YOU!!!! You should've thought of that before all the despicable things you've done including having the mother of your son arrested in front of him and distressing him!

My dear MrsC, you don't have to make a point about any matter whatsoever as MrC's behaviour speaks for itself and renders him worthy of universal condemnation, whereas you are an inspiration to others and an absolute rock for your lovely dc.

for you, wonderful woman. Put your feet up and watch the show with a

Believe it or not, everyone who is a parent who's posted on this thread has had the sick experience on occasion (not to mention major diarrhoea explosions, childhood diseases involving worrying rashes that they absolutely must not scratch, accidental injuries, and emotional distress for all sorts of reasons or apparently none at all). I had four children and they used to get everything going in relays. Their dad coped with it all pretty well, better than me for the most part because he had a stronger stomach. I don't often praise XH but he did come in handy for certain stuff. If you've had it once in four years you have been either very lucky or very avoidant.

I just also wanted to acknowledge Weebirdie's very lovely and eloquent post about her son. It really moved me. Thank you my lovely for sharing that, you always show such dignity and continue to do so. Anybody who knows anything about ASD will know that what happened to you with your song was an amazing thing. I am fortunate that my son is an eloquent communicator, however, he has huge difficulties elsewhere. I count myself very lucky in that respect. You are clearly an amazing Mum and your ex is sadly an inadequate parent, as so many of them are...doing things "twice" doesn't mean buying lots of plastic shit or popping in twice a year, it means actually being there when it counts. So to you xx

Oi, Fuck Nugget! Do yourself a favour and go back to worshipping at the altar of Pineapple Pauline, we all know that you are a selfish tosser who's only concern for your son comes from a need to hurt and abuse MrsC, so don't bother with your fake parental concern.

How's the fitness regime going Btw? Got the next poor sucker lined up yet? I wouldn't blame you for wanting rid of the charming Pauline!

Previous post typo alert!!! "Son", not "song"...almost as bad as Mr WT but not quite

Dear god, has the man has no self awareness at all?

MrsC, my heartfelt sympathies. Hope your boy is better now.
... Hope the car sick smell lingers for eons:)

MrC if you're concerned about your son perhaps it would be good for him if you could show his mum some respect. I can't believe anyone would have the nerve to come on the thread as you have done. I didn't see your deleted post but I saw enough of the other one, talk about self centred.

MrsC I hope you get a bit of peace and all the best for Sunday.

MrC you are every bit as vile and deluded as you very lovely ex wife has described.

Please crawl back into the hole you squirmed out of -l am sure the beautiful Pauline is waiting for you.
MrsC is way way out of your league in terms of truth honesty integrity and wit.
If you have one ounce of decency you would leave this thread but knowing what you with the contents of previous thread l can't see this happening.

Good luck for the bail hearing MrsC on Sunday--bring on the pineapples

MrC: You know what? I'm all turned round on the facts of the matter. You're right: You need my help here because I feel sorry for you being traumatised by your child having a child moment.

Therefore, I am switching allegiance.

MrWT: Please print out and present on your behalf on Sunday to mitigate/mediate/manipulate the police force.

Dear Police,

I am forwarding to you 2,200 posts written by wimmen. Sure some of them are written by the odd man. They be most definitely odd 'cos I say so. And they don't nose the fax.

Anyways, to prooof to yous that I is a victim 'cos I must to help myself ensure I am one, I submit this letter to proof that I be a victime.

I am a victim. I am telling you this. So therefore it must to be true.

Yours. Oh, no. Not yours. I have no comment to make whens I get arrested

Yours, without comment.

MrC.

Ps: Thankfully there's no bankruptcy order. I am the MAN for evading that one.

WWK

Ditto WWK. MrC I'd like to know why you are reading the and feel the need to post. I mean you must realise that MrsC had rather lot of supporters on here who think the world of her. Therefore any attempt at justification of your actions on your part would only be met with disdain and contempt. Really why bother??? (unless you simply like the attention)

Waiting for Paulines contribution now

WWK I'm not an/the "odd man"...a bit strange maybe, but certainly not "odd" .

Steam you're lovely.

Just for being here and having a point of view nicely delivered.

Take care. WWK.

I had no idea Steam was a man!

???????????? you are all fab
Well except the tosser himself

Love ya Mrs C ????????

Good morning MrsC. I have just caught up with your last thread. Wow they truly are nasty vicious scumbags (yes I mean you two).

However MrTwuntsposts did make me LOL at his attempts to help us think differently about him and whatsherface.

You are an amazingly strong women and those lucky enough to have you in their life are just well lucky. You have had my quiet support from the start and I have been cheering you on from the sidelines all the way.

KOKO you formidable women

Why hasn't Pauline Lady of the Pineapple posted? She must be champing at the bit to post her side of the story ;) Honestly, what a merry go round.