Hi all, I am sorry for posting so late. Firstly, thank you stupidgreatgrin for your lovely words, as with everybody who has supported me here, it means a lot 
I wanted to update as I said I would. I am hoping that the police have spoken to the other party. When I answered bail last month, I was asked to take a fixed penalty notice to "put it bed" as it were. A £90 fine that I literally wouldn't have been able to pay for the human "crime" of biting back at OW and her horribly cruel goading and reminding my husband of the effects of his behaviour on our little boy. I refused and said that I would rather be charged and take my chances with a jury given the back story. Given that in the intervening period OW had posted on my brother's FB business page while he was seriously ill recovering from life saving surgery and indeed that my husband had done his level best to goad me into contact, including pretending to "not know" whether he was to pick DS up from nursery, having done it every Wednesday for weeks (not forgetting that all contact during the bail period had been agreed with his solicitor) and letting me down with additional childcare while I attended the ASD course that he refused to do with me for the sake of our son, the interviewing officer asked me to provide evidence of this and thus, put me back on bail. So I did indeed provide all the information to her. I was also asked not to post information about that on here, which I didn't, hence why I couldn't report back. There was then the issue of the Facebook page that mysteriously disappeared but that I reported immediately given the situation I was in as I think that would have been used to implicate me in a "crime" that I didn't commit...or at least to give the impression that I had breached the terms of my bail ie : no contact. The fact that it disappeared minutes after I mentioned it on here spoke volumes.
I had to answer bail for the second time today and was told that no further action would taken. I had to sign an undertaking not to contact OW or write on her FB page again which I was happy to do (and as if I would, I shouldn't have done it, however she is an utterly malicious bitch and enjoys causing me pain and I did react when I should have exhibited more self control). Unlike my husband, I didn't do the "no comment" thing, I said that I'd done it and why, to be honest, if you're going to do things that are verging on breaking the law, you're best to own up. They both shot themselves in the foot by behaving as they have. I am given to understand that MNHQ have refused to remove my threads on OW's request. OW claims "trolling". I would be very much able to prove otherwise, as she well knows. The police are not remotely interested in my threads, indeed they would rather I vented my spleen here at you lovely lot than at OW and Mr WT. Furthermore, I am entitled to do what the hell I like under the guise of anonymity. I do hope they don't get this twitchy when I start writing in RL!! 
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So, that is where we are at right now. Obviously the court case is far from over, unfortunately, yet it could have been easily concluded on Friday with a divorce shortly after. I have a couple of theories of why Mr WT is doing this..but at the end of the day, it's got to be done and we absolutely NEED to be divorced. I can't wait for that day.
There are a few other things I'd like to say but it's late and I need to go to bed so I will plan to do that tomorrow. After that, I will let the threads slide but promise that I will post updates as and when although not to the detail that I have to date. I have so much to look forward to and so many plans, they don't need to know about them and I don't want them to. My life is my own. It has taken me a long time to realise that. However, I wouldn't have got through this without every single one of you, I am so lucky to have found you all xxxx