Evening all! Aussiebean, thank you for delurking! I know, it's very odd, I look forward to the agenda behind this being revealed. You really would think that he would want this done, dusted and out of the way. Divorce within a few weeks, they can live happily ever after. So, why? Even I am flummoxed with this one! Thank you for your lovely words 
Fridarey, hello young man! We love a man entering the threads except Mr WT I am not sure why that is, I think we all assume that we're all the female of the species and that's it! I trust you've had a positive MN experience and you sound like a lovely Dad! Your words are pertinent indeed. I have said before, I will make sure that my DS never ever treats a woman the way his father has. I will ensure he learns the meaning of respect, fidelity, kindness and generosity of spirit. He may be autistic (as I am sure his father is), but because I have this "heads up", I can guide him down the right path. What is really very sad is that he will soon realise what an utter wanker his father is and thus, his father's losses will be doubled again. Nice work Mr WT! Thank you too for your kind words 
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So, I am back to the police station tomorrow afternoon to answer bail. Frankly, I would be happy to remain on bail for the rest of my life. I LOVE not having to have any contact with my husband and will maintain that status quo even after this is done and dusted by whatever means. Unfortunately, I have to take DS to the station with me tomorrow. Thanks for that Mr WT, I am sure that will do our son the world of good. I will report back on return.
Despite my best efforts to avoid seeing his bloated face again, I have twice had to see Mr WT recently. We drove past eachother last week, which was weird, not entirely sure what he was doing so near to my house probably to do with work he says he doesn't have but it was so strange, glancing at this man driving OW's husband's car, him glancing back and thinking "Christ, I spent 14 years of my life with him, married, had a baby" and neither of us can even bear to look at eachother anymore. I never ever ever imagined in my worst nightmares that it would end like this, or that it would even end. Today, he decided to park away from the house and walk down with DS, I imagine he wishes to avoid awkward interactions with the neighbours, either that or OW was in the car. I saw him waddle off back up the road. He must be putting on a stone a week. I remain shocked at the sight of him and that he has allowed himself to get into that state. I would never ever have let that happen, for health reasons if nothing else. He is a heart attack waiting to happen. Stupid man.
DS has been his normally unsettled self since return (although now tucked up in bed). He said two very strange things this evening, "will I see my daddy again" and then "will we stay in our house forever and ever". Not sure where either of those statements came from, reassured him on both counts and distracted him with other things, but I do know that he can't stay in this home "for ever and ever" because of the utter selfishness of Mr WT and OW. Thanks you two! You're vile.
As for the mutant pineapples...
KOKO