Hello all! My goodness, these lovely posts have moved me to tears...they really have. You are all so bloody wonderful and I couldn't have got through this total nightmare without you. I think I am doing to right thing by removing myself from this. I really don't want to, but as I have been outed, I am not entirely sure that I want those who wish me and my children so much harm to be party to the details of my life. I will be found scattered across the boards I am sure, I love posting here and also like to try and pay forward as much as I can given the amount of support I have had. I have also been very touched by the amount of PM's I have had too 
. I am ultimately glad that Mr WT and OW have been party to this. I hope that one day they will attempt to appreciate the excruciating pain they have inflicted on me and my two lovely children, who deserved and continue to deserve so much better than the way they have been treated by virtue of the unending malice of those two. I have no doubt that they will reap what they sow in the fullness of time. Life has a habit of doing that to you, doesn't it?
Onto tomorrow...I have just finished getting everything together. I hope this will be a quick hearing. Really, it is a point of principal. The joint lives nominal order was in favour of DS due to his diagnosis of autism and the fact that his father does not support him anywhere near sufficiently and probably never will without being forced to. I find it so sad. You'd think that a man who wanted our little boy as much as he did, would bend over backwards for him, yet he seems unable to separate his hatred of me from the needs of his son. Therefore the restrictions imposed by a remarriage/co-habitation clause must be removed as if I'd ever get married again anyway 
. Hopefully the Judge will agree and this will FINALLY be brought to an end. I will of course report back.
I did laugh at the pineapple comments, I don't think I will ever eat the bloody stuff again after this...so I am grateful for all your mascot support tomorrow, you are all brilliant!
Thank you everybody, catch up tomorrow....KOKO 
xxx