Hi everybody, thank you, as ever, for your lovely posts. I am totally on it, something has got to give. There will be no overnight contact, that is for sure. I have enough problems as it is getting DS into bed...his routine is so precise, things have to be "just so" and even my MIL wouldn't have him without me there knowing how he can be. Because of my husband's total inability to see any of this, let alone his ability to communicate with me as DS's mother, there is no way I would trust either of them with my son. They are also both exceptionally heavy drinkers. It's not going to happen. I would prefer supervised contact and always have. I have no wish to prevent my husband seeing his son but I don't trust him in any way whatsoever. I can only place my faith in CAFCASS and the Court. That is the next step...
On a "lighter" note, I have spent the evening "archiving", I don't really need to write a book, I just need to have all the emails and texts published. Pity they are so thick while claiming innocence...!
I did actually once name OW and ask Mr WT if it was her. I did already know, just hoped he'd be honest with me. He said "Who? I haven't seen her in years, you're nuts" not sure how that was going to work long term. I love the "you're nuts" thing...they all say that...
Email from Mr WT : "I swear on old secretary. Scandal".
Email from MrWT : Yes I am seeing somebody but my relationship status is none of your business. I didn't leave you for somebody else.
Message to a family friend "I left MrsC for