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so what do you and your dp/dh.'DO'

92 replies

StrawberryFULLMoonOWOWOWWWWWWW · 05/10/2006 13:55

are you still all kissy cuddly?
have you been together long?
are you always having grown up cuddles?
do you both always say 'i love you'??

just wondering if im different from everyone else?

OP posts:
trinityrhino · 05/10/2006 13:57

7 years
not so much kissy cuddly but we do touch, pat bums, stroke on the way past
we have lots of hugs but the kidds butt in lol

we say 'love you' if we aren't going to see each other for a few days and sometimes just out of the blue whilst having a hug and a shared smile and kiss

ParanoidAndroid · 05/10/2006 13:59

We've been married 18 years, and some days we barely talk to each other

Lots of history that I won't go into but I'm hoping that it will get better. I can't bear to think of the rest of my life being like this

Pruhoohooohoooooni · 05/10/2006 14:00

13 yrs
still quite cuddly and a bit kissy
definitely say 'I love you'

Mumpbump · 05/10/2006 14:00

Yes, yes (4 years), yes and yes.

CovenOVeneer · 05/10/2006 14:01

Yes to all 4 questions. We have been together 15 years (met when we were 18) and married for 6.

IdrisTheDragon · 05/10/2006 14:05

Been married 7 years, been together nearly 12 years.

Going through a fairly lovey-dovey stage at the moment. So there is quite a but of kissing and cuddling going on .

Blandmum · 05/10/2006 14:06

yes
Married 19 years next month
yes
We say it at least once a day, both to each other and to your kids

SamhainWitch · 05/10/2006 14:06

Yes to the questions. Together nearly 19 years, married 17.

foundintranslation · 05/10/2006 14:08

Together nearly 9 years, married for 6.

We are quite cuddly and kissy and say 'I love you' several times a day.

ShowOfSeveredHands · 05/10/2006 14:10

Together 8 years, married for 17 months. Say I love you all the time (at least twice a day), shockingly kissy and cuddly (although not in public, I have standards), hold hands, sit on the sofa together, phone each other for no reason, leave notes.

Pathetic really.

marymillington · 05/10/2006 14:11

together 6 years, lots of snogging in the privacy of own home, say i love you every day.

TheBlonde · 05/10/2006 14:20

yes, 3 yrs, yes, yes

mumblechum · 05/10/2006 14:24

15th anniversary today! Shaggy weeekend planned from tomorrow. Yes, we cuddle a lot and always kiss & cuddle when leaving/meeting each other. I say I love you more than he does, but he shows it in lots of ways (snogging alot), and if I remind him he says it about 10 times a day then forgets again. We hold hands but not in public and don't kiss in public. Our son thinks we're disgusting.

StrawberryFULLMoonOWOWOWWWWWWW · 05/10/2006 15:18

ParanoidAndroid

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redbullbloodandbump · 05/10/2006 15:24

weve been together for nearly 9 years we say i love you about 100 times a day!!, dp not very cuddly out side of the house but started to accept that now, since we found out i was pregnant dp is really cuddly allways stroking my belly

doggiesayswoof · 05/10/2006 15:42

Yes
4 years
Yes
Yes, loads

It is all a bit pathetic and will no doubt embarrass (sp?) dd no end when she is a bit older. We also phone, text and email each other for no reason. It's hard this parenting/being grown up thing and I really need the hugs most days - so does he I suspect.

sfxmum · 05/10/2006 15:49

do people actually go about saying 'i love you'?

CheesyFeetcomingtoGETyou · 05/10/2006 15:52

Grown up cuddles?

Is that a euphemism for sex or am I reading too much into it????

CreepyJess · 05/10/2006 15:55

Yeah we do all that, although maybe I instigate most of it, thinking about it. Yes we say I love you.

Tawny75 · 05/10/2006 15:57

3 Years and yes to all.

DD also thinks it is gross

MotherBeaker · 05/10/2006 16:04

Been married 6 years, yes to all other questions. Can't imagine life without dh.

ProfYaffle · 05/10/2006 16:08

6.5 yrs and yes to all q's. DD is only 2.5 but hates it, shouts 'no Daddy MY Mummy!' when dh kisses me.

DracsTroubleAndStrife · 05/10/2006 16:12

Been together 6 years Married 4.5 yes to all q's, kids think we are mad but love it all the same.

peegeeweegeeWITCH · 05/10/2006 16:16

Been together 14 years, married for 7, not very kissy/cuddely but lots of the pat/stroke/quick kiss when passing each other. Will also snuggle up on sofa together to watch tv.

Say I love you before he leaves for work, on the phone at lunch and before falling asleep....

CreepyJess · 05/10/2006 16:27

Forgot to add, just celebrated 11th wedding anniversary. Been together a year or so longer..

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