It's my wedding night. I'm all alone.

[IsThisReallyHappening]

Today I got married.

This afternoon we arrived at our hotel to stay the night.

On arrival I checked my facebook to see some congratulation messages.

One message was not quite what I was expecting.

My 'husband' cheated on me 8 weeks ago.

I'm now sat here alone. On my wedding night. My 'husband' is gone.

I'm pregnant too.

I already have a child with him.

What the actual fuck has just happened to my life?

I feel trapped.

Hm seems fishy to me.

I do read threads from time to time on here. I am just a lurker though. I just wanted so my piece nothing more.

chased he has posted on other threads OP has been on in the past under her usual name. He has form for invading her personal space on here.

IAmThatguy I don't think we're the ones you need to explain yourself too. I hope you have said as much to your wife.

I said all of this to her. Whatever her decision is i will accept. But i still hope that i can make things right.

I hope a notice of an annullment soon comes your way

Can any of the pp who are FB friends with the OP confirm that she is actually ok please?

What a creepy dick.

WHy do you think anyone will be interested in what you have to say?

Iamthatguy if you are for real I think your time would be better spent trying to sort out all of this shit you have created, yes? You don't deserve her you know that I hope.

Wanker

Please don't troll hunt. Neither OP nor I suspect who is posting are trolls. OP is a regular MNetter and her twat of a DH has joined in on several threads under her usual name.

I don't expect anyone to be interested in what i have to say to be perfectly honest. I know what i have done and how terrible it is. If she wants an annulment i wont argue i deserve it. I am not here to start arguments or antagonize anybody.

I know i do not deserve her in any way shape or form she is a much better person than i am.

Why post then IAm?

Because he can't help himself. As I said, he has form.

Please sod off...we are not interested in you.I think we need to ignore you and hope that OP changes her name as you are very odd indeed.If you gave a fuck you would get off here

vindscresn she is OK. As ok as expected in the circumstances

Ugh, just ugh, IamThatGuy. After all that you've done you can't even allow the OP some space to vent/get advice/whatever she needs. You have to come on here to attempt to explain to posters who I guarantee don't care for your oh so heartfelt attempt at sorrow.

Just go away.

I posted like i said just to say my piece nothing more i am not wanted here. It seems like you would all prefer me to go away. I am after no pity i am not trying to justify what i have done there is no way to justify what i have done. I have done something terrible and i am a terrible person for doing it.

Vindscreenviper the OP has posted since on FB although obviously she is far from okay.

MrOP this really isn't the place for any discussion about what has happened. I think you should keep that for real life.

Yes we would all prefer you to go away!

This ^^ STBXH is everything that is wrong with the internet.

FFS Iamthatguy get off the internet and go and discuss this with your wife. She is the only person who matters here. Why on earth would you justify yourself/apologise/say anything frankly at all to a group of strangers?

This isn't some kind of entertainment thread where we all sit watching it like TV waiting for the next character in the cast to make an entrance. None of us care what you think or do. We (well 99.9% of us) respond to these questions to offer independent advice and support to the OP.

The fact you would choose to post here really makes me question your sanity and intelligence. I suggest you work out what your priorities in life are. Clue: not cyberspace.