It was never 'work stress', it's emotional abuse and you're going to get divorced because of it H! (part3)

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New thread!

As always I'm hopeless and can't link properly to my old thread Work stress? Err I don't think so mate'

Thank you everyone for finishing off the last thread- glad to be starting afresh actually! I did have a little chuckle about Greg the plumber (Phwoar!!) thanks H for the suggestion - us at Mumsnet ran with it and he sounds like my dream man haha!

Anyway - I'm upstairs as usual avoiding going down and seeing old King of the Castle in his throne. He came up half an hour ago in the hope of 'some action' but was told to bugger off - he's manageable at the moment because all of a sudden it's him who's 'scared to rock the boat' and keeps telling me how grateful if he is to have been allowed back - yack! (You didn't give me a lot of choice H though did you? You played every emotional card in your pack and then literally forced your way in!)

Anyway - I'm feeling strong, seeing the police tomorrow - and action plan will be in place!

Love to you all

Good luck today Name I will be thinking of you.

Good luck for today name

Yeah, i saw that story too. Awful news :(

Thinking about you today Name. Good luck!

Thank you so much EVERYONE

Bit nervous! I looked up that news story as hadn't heard it - just terrible and a fucking outrage

H took the kids off this morning - the headmaster always greets people at the school gate each morning so he must be thinking wth is going on here when he sees H dropping off

The house is unrecognisable - it has been feng shui'd to the max. H even went out and bought a new sofa locally off gumtree and he was in such a great mood this morning although gave me a quick shooting glance when I looked at my phone.

Anyway, I'm all sorted for my meeting, and then I've got a meeting with victim support straight after so I will be back on here about 4ish to update you all.

Your support has been an absolute lifeline everyone - thank you again, lots of love

{HUGS} keep going. You can do this..... x All strength to you.

Papers? Check

Timeline? Check

Spotted tie? No, check!

Good luck Name MN army behind you.

So relieved to see your post. Best of luck for everything this week x

and a following wind, Name!

Delurking to say good luck for this week. You are awesome, and giving your daughters such a gift by kicking this abusive loser out. Thinking of you.

Keep going lovely lady you are amazing! Hope all goes well today

Sending love and strength your way today x

sending you love and luck Name

it's evening here in Australia I'll be checking before I go to bed for an update and hoping to wake up to good news in the morning

be very careful and stay safe

Omg I have no idea about the story mentioned upthread, but had my heart in my mouth, until I got to Name's latest post. I see TwatChops is still doing his weird crap.

Pom poms waving for you Name. Keep on pushing the divorce forward. Get rid of him asap. KOKO

Sending positive thoughts and cyber hugs to you, name.

Thinking of you Name. You can do this.

Fingers crossed for the best outcome possible. I'm glued to your thread everyday hoping today's the day you've got rid.

Thinking of you today. Hope your meetings go well and the plan can be executed in a fast and effective way

Pshhhh pshsssss phssssss pshssssss pshsssss pshsssssss That's the noise my pom poms are making name Weeeeeeeee - nearly over. He has a really low opinion of you and yet, if only he could see what we all see. You are a legend!

Thinking of you NameChange, stay strong and look forward to your update

Fingers crossed for you Name and sending you lots of luck, best wishes and good thoughts

You GO, name! Sending you vibes for strength and determination.

A new day is dawning for you!

Another supporter here, sending you strength through the mn network. Whenever you feel you're struggling just look behind you, there's a whole army of us cheering you on

ooh, waiting for the 4pm update. hope it all went OK today Name xx