Hair Down There

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OK girls, I have a new relationship and will be dtd hopefully! What is the protocol for Hair Down There?? I'm late 40's but trim and fit but haven't got a clue about what to do? Trim, shave, hairy? Whats a girl to do??

Answers on a postcard please!

Italian - that's the one with meatballs on top?

Italians are into Dolmio Face are they not ? < Lowers tone of thread even further >

I wouldnt be able to stand the pain

Also, does the waxer wax your outer labia? Lord alive on a bike, i cant imaginw the pain. I wince when i have my legs waxed.

AnyFucker, have you actually met any Italian decorators?

That would be a no

it's a way to make money, innit. Create insecurities, create a market (for waxing and hair removing items etc) and bingo £££
Same as anti wrinkle creams and the like.
Aim is to keep people feeling insecure so they spend.
meh

Spoilsport, was going to get mine ombred( just the last 3 inches lightened)

Is that like a dip dye, blue?

Honestly no idea any more about pubic hair

I first shaved mine when I was about 12 for convenience (warning TMI - v heavy periods and it got a bit gross) but I'm very open to the fact that I've probably unconsciously been conditioned by magazines, porn etc.

I actually feel really really hideous and unsexy if I haven't shaved everything off. I realise this is totally ridiculous and I completely resent it. I'm kind of trying to train myself out of it but i just feel hideous. Definitely wouldn't let anybody touch me down there. I'm fully aware that the media has probably conditioned me somehow to think this (hope that doesn't sound super dramatic but I can't think why else - I've never cared about boyfriends preferences etc)

I was thinking about growing them out and dying them pink in an attempt to learn to love them

MerryMarigold , yes, did a home dye last time and blistered my beef curtains; not a good look.

I've got loads of whites, so it may be quite a fetching effect if I got the red dye out anyways, always have sex with the light out.

No, just tell him you've had it " frosted" .
( like he'd be looking at the mantle piece while stoking the fire)

OP if he's anything other than delighted to be there, he's an arse IMO. Unless you are quite exceptionally hairy, I don't see the problem. I do not tidy unless I am likely to exhibit a pube on the beach / in the pool.

If it would make you feel better, have a little tidy up, but I really wouldn't worry about style / fashion.

Just showed DP the Burt Reynolds picture. He responded by telling me he was clearly born 30 years too late

I love that Burt Reynolds picture. I realise I might be the only living person who does.

I said there was nothing wrong with it (that some statins couldn't control....)

Oh AF it's definitely moist - best thing about it.

It must take some courage to march into a beauticians and ask to have a stranger remove the hair from ones genitals. For many people showing their doctor is scary enough.

I once had this treatment, never again.

Ha ha brilliant BrightBlue!

Is it common for women to remove their hair arm? Does anyone here do it? I really foolishly did at about age 14 as I have really dark hair and hated my arm hair. I immediately regretted this and had weeks of covering up my spiky arm hair.

Is the pic for full face waxing? Sounds unpleasant. I get my full face threading done once a fortnight though, love it. I have an awfully noticeable 'stache that I used to get mercilessly bullied about, and bad sideburns too. I would never give up my full face threading!

I had a date with a man who lived most of his time dressed as a woman. He was far more "feminine" than me. When I said goodbye I touched his arm and met with a load of stubble. Do not shave your arms!

I had the " Bikkni From", not really, just love the typos.
Yes here you can have anything waxed; full body for as little as £22.

It must take some courage to march into a beauticians and ask to have a stranger remove the hair from ones genitals. For many people showing their doctor is scary enough.

An ex describing having her bikini line waxed sounded embarrassing enough to me. The thought of hot wax being put on and someone pulling the hair out anywhere near delicate bits makes my eyes water.

HB, I was in tears with the top inch of my bikini line, which is basically over bone - not even near the sensitive bits!

Can I refute the idea that "most people" prefer their partner bare for oral? I've been sexually active for thirty years and have never found it difficult to find men to go down on me. Some positively reveled in my hair and sang its praises. And I prefer a full bush on a lover.

Yay! BUSH!