Anyone here? DP just broke my heart and I can't cope.

[CrimsonDay]

Pleasesomeonen jus talk to me. DP I my world and he has just told m he's done.
I cant breathe or sleep

Oh honey. Please take a deep breath. Are you safe? Do you want to say what has happened?

CrimsonDay what might help is if you write the whole story out. Try and tell us what happened.

Make yourself a hot and strong and sweet as you have had a shock

I'm here x

Crimson, lovely, we're here. Have a big old cuppa and snuggle up with your duvet. If you want to tell us what happened, do.

He's in love with someone else. It's not been a long relationship but I've fallen hard and fast for him.

I keep crying, my chest hurts and there's nobody here to hold me. I just want him to tell me it's a mistake but he won't, he just stays quiet.

I don't want to be here anymore, I wish I could sleep and never wake up but the DCs need me .

Oh my love :(

How long have you been together? Are they his DC?

How long together?
Do you live together?
Are the DCs his?

Ok, deep deep breaths. You are right your dc's need you. Tell us about them, how old are they, what they do to cheer your day.

Oh god you poor thing, what happened?

Oh, darling. They do. They are worth so much more than this guy. Three months is a very short amount of time to be with someone. Relationships that intense fizzle out quickly ime.

Be kind to yoursef. Allow yoursef time to mope. Then move on, stronger!

We have dated before but broke it off, we were both heartbroken but it was the wrong time. We got back in contact 7 weeks ago. He does live here, he moved in after getting into contact and then due to circumstances it was the best option. I couldn't afford the rent etc after ex left and he needed somewhere to stay.

How could I be so stupid

Sorry the three months was from another thread!

Do you work? If you need to work tomorrow, don't. Call in sick. Focus on you and the little folk.

You are in shock, we have all been here. If you can make a very sweet drink and read the no doubt brilliant advice about to come your way.

Is he still there?

You're right to remember the DC need you. Ring the Samaritans if it would help to talk to someone in real time. Just getting through the night will help. Can you wrap yourself up in front of the TV and put a film on just to distract/occupy yourself a little bit?

Oh, he's a cocklodger!

Kick his arse out! Take control of the situation.

DC are 3 and 2. I struggle with them on my own, they are a handful. They make me smile every day, they're clever and kind but I can't even imagine getting up in the morning tomorrow.

I came out of an abusive relationship not long ago, now I've damaged them more

Ok, so you fell for a fairytale there are lots of us here that did that. Don't feel bad.

Yes he's still here, I don't want him to leave I know he will go straight to her and it hurts so much. The DC love him, he is an old friend who they've known all their lives.

You haven't damaged them more at all, they will not remember this part of their life as it was so brief. Anyone with 2 such young kids would struggle.

You deserve more.

I'm not going to work, but I can't sit here thinking all day either.

I feel stupid, everyone will know i failed again. I want to run away

You really do deserve more. I hope you get some sleep tonight.

I'm from the 3 months thread! I've been dumped tonight too, if it helps. I'm in a state as well.

They've already been traumatised by their dad. He won't see or speak to them, they have night terrors and cry for him, and now they'll cry for DP too.

I know he deserve better but it hurts too much