constant bitching about "white people" - to me - I am white (and of course his DC are half white), and "asian people" and "women" and "polish people" etc etc.
sulking/moodiness for days.
being unable to have a meaning conversation. His idea of communicating involved sulking for days, "thinking" and giving me a lecture several days later on where I am going wrong. Whereas he was simply a "work in progress" everyone else was fucked.
No financial honesty - hiding debt and drug spending.
Waiting for him - I would get myself and the DC ready, and often pack a picnic, then we would still have to wait for him to get himself, and just himself, ready to leave the house. One time he took THREE FUCKING HOURS to bath, moisturise and dress himself. Eventually I would just get the DC ready and go without him - he could call/txt when he was ready to find out where we were and join us if he could be bothered - by then I wasn't bothered.
Deadweight always sleeping on the sofa in the day time, in a living space used by 4 people.
Formula 1 on the telly - never again.
Going to IL's every fucking Sunday to be locked indoors in a sealed box whatever the season, and watch Sky News on repeat. While he suck out with BIL to by/take coke etc. Waste of time.
His idea of tidying was to put everything, unedited, into a box, and put it with a load of other boxes. After he left I opened all these boxes and threw everything away.
Waiting for the nastiness to come out - it was never far away.
Tying every plastic bag with tight knots.
Telling DD she had to get on with and be friends with her bully I put him right on this, but his first instinct was to tell DD (aged 4) she had to suck up to this kid who was making her life hell - fucking idiot.
Expecting me to pay for everything, despite having a perfectly good wage himself.
Never buying me a drink in a pub - cheap fuck - but waiting and expecting me to pay for the "family"!
Cooking one thing at a time in the oven - as in a roast dinner he would cook chicken, take it out and then put vege in etc. Resulting in a roast dinner being overcooked, undercooked and cold at all the same time and the oven on for hours and hours.
Adding Bisto to everything - including when I would make a fab tasty spag bol, simmered and reduced for hours, he would stroll along and without even asking add Bisto to it. Fucker.
Buying Bisto (as I stopped buying it due to ^^ BistoFuckery)
Regularly running a bath full to the top with 100% hot water, letting it get cold and then running it again. Of course the gas bill was in my name. Now he lives on his own he doesn't even put the heating on in the winter as gas is "too expensive".