Ex taking OW to "our" gong bath meditation (don't ask I'm a hippy!) while I took the DCs away to DLP & when I found out & said I was hurt, accused me of being a horrible person who was trying to stop him sharing a humanitarian gift to others, either telling me I was too fat for sex, or taking all his clothes off & sitting up in bed with his arms folded sighing if I read a book, dumping me just before my birthday every year, refusing to let me sleep on holiday because I hadn't given him enough "attention", having to drink at least a bottle and a half of wine every night or got wound up, couldn't bear me watching tv, if I was tired complained that I was boring & went to bed too early, if he was tired complained that I disturbed him, hated my house, hated my kids, hated my clothes, threatened to leave me every 3-4 weeks even while pregnant, accused me of "stopping" him getting a 2.1 in his part time physics degree which he did "for our future" when we had a new born baby, on top of working 50 hours a week, sleeping with his married 1st cousin, taking his wedding ring off whenever he left the house, telling his family lies about me so they hated me, telling me he was in love with someone else on our wedding day, leaving me out of social engagements on purpose, having week long sulks about my tone of voice or look on my face ........... Yeah I'm divorcing him!!!