Hi everybody, firstly can I say how absolutely touched to the core I am that you have all been waiting in anticipation of this today and indeed all the lurkers and everybody who have posted hugely supportive messages.
Without my lovely friend WWK, the outcome would have been a lot different, I had lost my confidence in my abilities, have been struck dreadfully with grief recently and have struggled to see an end to this saga. Thankfully, we had the most amazing Judge who clearly had experience with autistic children and could see straight through Pauline and Mr WT. I would say that they looked a bit smug leaving court, clearly having absolutely no idea of the realities of the order made and while I was happy to hand Pauline her disclosure back, I KNOW, I know that when my husband made the decision to leave us because he wanted somebody else to give him the lifestyle he thought he deserved, he's actually ended up with somebody on the verge of bankruptcy. When she met started an affair with my husband, she needed somebody to pay the bills, he does, and continues to do so. She looked a bit smug today because she is as thick as him!
So, we have achieved the virtually impossible ie : walking away with the entire assets of the marriage. It was WWK the pineapple who DID this...she will say otherwise, but I will always be in her debt. We are both at the end of four bottles of wine, hence I am probably a bit incoherent! However, to say I owe her, would be an understatement. We are not at the "end" yet...a way to go in terms of fuckwittery..and indeed the actual "divorce" but tonight I can go to bed and say that we are sleeping in DS's house...because it's his. God I talk some shit...xxxxxx