Morning ladies, gosh I've had a really difficult few days and still feel consumed with anger...but so cheered up by your posts, all of you, thank you so much! Bogey, that made me LOL, I think I need you, you're an OW slayer!!
So, an update, we have managed to arrange contact via a third party so that went ahead on Wednesday and yesterday. On Wednesday he had to collect DS from nursery. I have a lot of friends there, some since DD was there, the shock of them at the sight of Mr WT, all absolutely gobsmacked. One friend said she could hear his voice but was looking round and couldn't spot him and then twigged when DS came out and ran to him. She said she would never have recognised him, the state he is in. He apparently made a holy show of himself, shouting "I've missed you so much" in front of everybody. Amazing isn't it? Walks out on him, doesn't give a shit about whether we end up homeless or not, doesn't pay maintenance and then does that. What an utter arsehole.
So, yesterday he took DS to London on the train. On Friday I had to post four court related letters to him, which I did, via recorded delivery. On checking last night, OW had rejected the mail as "no longer here, gone away". Really?! So, he pulls up in her noddy car in the morning and then drops DS off in her 4x4, so he has her cars but not living there? I am beginning to think this woman will do anything to keep me away. This, I believe, explains why he didn't turn up at the sensory workshop in January that we were recommended to go to by the Child Development Centre when son was diagnosed in December. He was enthusiastic about it and I told him that I would forward details in front of everybody, which I did. I was very surprised he was a no show and there was no mention of it. I am beginning to wonder how often this has happened with correspondence. She nearly always signs for it, doesn't mean she passes it on though! I have emailed the Police to ask if I am OK to go and put new copies through his door. I don't want to do anything that causes an issue while he is on bail. Haven't heard back. The thing is, this is important stuff that he needs in time for Thursday and included one about WWK being my McKenzie Friend. That's going to look good in court "yes, I did inform the respondent, but the co-respondent rejected it"....!! She is an absolute psycho and must be incredibly insecure.
On a "woo" note, I had Tarot done on Thursday...wow that was interesting! I visited her 18 months ago when on my knees with grief, she was astonishingly accurate and much of what she said has come to pass. This time I asked specific questions, let's just say that this isn't going to end well for them. I love a bit of "woo" but do keep sensible head on. I guess it depends on how much you believe doesn't it? It was very interesting though!
Anyway, that's my latest....really not looking forward to the week ahead....!