This is not right but I don't know how to change it

[HappyLandSpaceMan]

I have been in my current relationship for 6 years now. We have 2 dc.
He is not making me happy and his behaviour isn't right towards me. I do know that much. I don't want to be with him but I have no idea how to leave him. I need him to function, or that's how it feels anyway. I don't know how to make it all better.

He has hurt me but he's gone now I just want to sleep

Really hope he wasn't/is not outside. But do call the police.

V proud of your flat news - amazing!

X post Happy.

Are you okay?! What's happened??

Can you call the police?

No! Call police!! You cannot just let this pass! I know it is tempting to just not deal with it; it's a nightmare coming true. But you have to stop him some time, and it is better to do it while you are still alive. Think about that for a minute. Then call police. Or have the hotel call for you.

Oh HAPPY, I'm so sorry to hear he has got to you. Please do as others say. If you don't feel safe phoning police then at least phone womens Aid and speak to someone.

How are you now?

You must make him accountable for this. Please get some help tonight, we want to know that you're safe and being looked after, and that this man will not get away with treating you so badly. He has no right to do this to you!

Happy - what do you mean he has hurt you?

Sorry I don't mean to come across as bossy. I'm just angry. And worried. Please let us know you're ok?

Do you need a doctor?

I got scared and openned the door I know it was stupid but he was scaring me so much, he has done the same thing as he always did but then he said he was going and he would see me at home tomorrow, I am going to call the police in the morning, I can't think and everything hurts, I just can't stop crying

Happy - what do you mean he did the same thing he always did?

Call the police now....

Call them now darling. Talking to them might help you feel better, plus if you need medical help they will sort it for you. What's the alternative? Crying all night long. Pick up the phone and get yourself some help. Please x

He had sex with me and hit me once but he said the most horrible things
I've been sick
I just need to calm down and I will try to call police

Oh lovey, call the police now
He's raped you darling, you have to stop this happening again
We'll be here to hold your hand

everything hurts

what does this mean Happy? You've been so strong and brave and ACTIVE in getting out of danger ... don't let that go ... breathe and LIVE .. fight for your life ...

Deep breaths. Concentrate on the out breath, it will help calm you.

remember to breathe and you are safe as long as you keep the door closed. Do you thin k that you could someone before tomorrow and then they will maybe find you somewhere safe where he can't find you tomorrow?x

yes, he has raped you ... call the police now ... 999 ... you are wearing the evidence that will help remove him from your life .. please phone the police now

Think of this as your chance to get away for good
Use it

Oh, poor you Happy. Please, please do call the police. 999. It doesn't matter that you're upset and can't talk much, it's an emergency.

Drink some water, too. Ring the cops now, please.

Hand holding.

Please call the police. Do it for your dcs, you need to stop him.

We're right here with you, just make the call

Yes, as above. It is your chance to get away for good ((xx))

You don't have to do what he says any more.

You can call the police now if you want.

Are your DC at the childminders tonight, or are they there with you?

Hope you're feeling calmer now and that help will be with you asap. The power is back in your hands.

Keep thinking about those wonderful children of yours (they will give you strength too).