Jesy Mm... I think you are doing too much for him maybe. Plus anyway, you said you like quiet, so... are you sure he wanted it ? Maybe he didn't expect a birthday present. Well, if a man says he in a bad mood, then just leave him be. Until he calms down.
Then see what happens.
Mychild I erm ... I wrote like a few messages, cos I think I got overexcited at someone I know is on there. To be honest, I had no idea why I just felt "giddy", and then the flashback of what we talked about in the past came to my mind. So I wrote and asked him "what happened?", and did London worked out for him ? I suppose if I took a step back and read it. It really is not a nice message that says "hello". We actually checked each others' profile for a while but I dismissed him. Because of his non-response on the night, I did write sorry if I scared him. I thought we can catch up in okc chat. Then I said did he just turn on the chat, sorry if I missed it as I was checking my FB. (Talking to his cousin!)
Then the day after he said "how's you? Long time no see". (It has been like almost 7-8 years ?) But to be honest, I have or felt I lost my bearings a bit. As I am not totally focused on dating. My heart is also not in it as well. I did feel a little bit rejected in some ways when he did not reply. I do not know why I put hope on that at all. Some memories of the past also came up too, and it just snowballed a bit.