jesy you need to channel your inner Shirley Valentine! 
That's what I do... 
I just remember all the posts I've read on here where we are told that confidence is what is most attractive. And I walk around starkers like I'm a model. You do need to walk around like you're a model though, walking round starkers, cowering and trying to cover your wobbly bits isn't a good look! One man I dated for a few weeks said he loved how confident I was and how I didn't have any body hang ups and how it was really sexy! I felt painfully self aware all the time, but he didn't see that. In my head I look like Kelly Brook. In the mirror, I don't. But in my head, I do. That's the secret...
One more thing. I met a man before Christmas (not romantically, he's marries) and I thought he was really good looking and very much my type. We became friends but all he does is complain about his appearance - his thinning hair, his developing paunch, are his eyes too close together?, is he developing lines around his eyes... and when I see him now, I no longer see him as an attractive man, but as a collection of the flaws he pointed out that I'd never have 'seen' otherwise. I'm taking a lesson from that!
Turnedout I depends. Sometimes I was honest and said I'd been on another date, sometimes I just omitted to say anything about that and just focused on other things instead. Or said I'd been out with friends.
MrWallet A wise move... 
4kids welcome!
dont that sounds great. And I think it's a good thing he didn't reply. Good to hear you're doing ok. I was wondering how you were doing this morning.