I saw mr nice again on Monday. So that's fri, sat and Monday! He's away now this weekend so some time apart as I won't be seeing him until next weekend. We had a nice evening and went for food and a drink. He's texting every evening to see how my days gone and we discuss what were both watching on tv :)
From reading what everyone else is doing I don't know if I'm doing something wrong! I can't be doing with games and even though I'm reserved about saying how I feel about someone in person, I'm not bothered if they think texting first shows a vulnerability or not. If I like them I'll text them first. Obv if I feel it's one sided then I can't be arsed and won't bother and then they can take a jump!
Mr nice also seems to not play games so we text each other whenever we have something to chat about regardless of whose turn it is. Also at the end of each date we discuss if they'll be a next date and what to do. This seems to have made it easier and hopefully we both know where we stand.
Scarey, if after 4 months your finding it hard to ask him if /when your seeing him again then to me it seems it's not working. 4 months of dating is quite some time to have got over the does he/doesn't he insecurities I would've thought. If you both liked each other then you wouldn't be feeling so awkward bringing it up. You would just want to be yourself. Sorry if this seems harsh but maybe if everyone just said how they felt things would go a lot more smoother with less mind games.
Jesy-good luck with the date.