I'm a mess. Marriage is over. Kids hate me.

[SalfordSky]

I'm sobbing my heart out. I've finally realised my husband loves me but isn't in love anymore.

Whats happenned?

Been coming a while. I'm nothing to them, I'm better off dead

What happened this evening? Did you have a row or something?

Am sure the kids do not hate you. What has happened?

It's over it's time to go

How old are they?

Not at all, Salford. We're all here to talk to.

Tell us what's happened.

Could you possibly tell us the reason you feel this way rather than the cryptic posts.

You will get through this. This is not the end of you, nor of your family. It's just a change.

Please keep talking.

How do you know he is not in love with you? Has he told you that exactly.

Please keep talking. Your kids will never hate you. You are just feeling low right now. Just tell us what's happened.

I'm sorry. Forget I posted. Sorry.

Goodness - no need to be sorry. How old are the kids?

My father killed himself. Ruined my brother's life. Don't be so self-indulgent.

Call Samaritans.

Salford tell us everything and then maybe we can put your mind at ease.

Sorry, I didn't mean to be so blunt. You touched a nerve.

But, seriously, don't do this. Don't play it out on MN. Get real life help.

Your kids do not hate you, they are stressed and afraid for the future and they need to know you are there for them no matter what. You may all need hand-holding to get through the next few months, so what do you need right now?

You don't really think that you are better off dead do you. How will your kids feel if you do that. They will blame themselves and live with it forever. You are their Mum and they love you and need you. If your husband has in fact fallen out of love with you, you will get through this. Many women do. It feels like the end of the world at the moment but it will get easier . Maybe its not as bad as you think anyway. Please just tell the whole story.

Cinnabar I'm not being indulgent and not was your father. It's called doing a fucki g favour. I'm nothing to them. Nothing nothgggvgf

Your kids don't hate you.

You are their mum and you only ever get one mum.

They need you.

Your children don't want the 'perfect' mother, they want you.
I would get some help in RL, you sound very depressed.

I've been the KEAST FUCKING INDULGENT PERSON I KNOW MY EHOLE LIFE SNG IM DONE

You're not done, girl. You're stronger than that.

Manchester Samaritans 0161 236 8000 - they'll listen