Jarlin thank you, I have stepped back he is now texting and making plans! bloody men they are so confusing. Is it your weekend away this week?
Dont I have followed the last few threads and read about Geeky, I second what everyone else is saying...infact I would go further I say he sounds quite mad and a bit deranged. You really do deserve so much more.
MrsIrony yes I am sure that when men say they want nothing too serious but some fun they mean sex. Nothing wrong with that if everyone involved understands, if its not what you think of as fun maybe step back from him. As you say you are still on sites and all the time he is looking for sex fun and not having it with you he will probably keep checking the sites.
Louby nothing to lose in meeting postie2, if you are looking for a regular easy and serious relationship distance is usually a huge factor.
Mine is texting that he misses me but is busy until next week when apparently we can see as much of each other as a I like mmm? I shall call him Mr.Contradiction. I am though, next week going to speak to him about "us" I don't want a road map or a life plan but I do want to know if this guy is worth my effort. I like him lots...he likes to play games of guessing, and exchanges of power, so I often feel wrong footed. The red flags? well I have my eyes wide open...will that save me?