How old we're you when you lost your big V

[Flowerybitch]

I was 14 and when I look back now I was soo young but thought I knew everything, lasted 2 minutes and really not all it was cracked up to be. Has anyone got any horror stories about their first time they would like to share :-)

15 with a lovely bf who wanted to wait until i was 16! I practically pounced on him but he insisted we go slowly so I was comfortable. Great 1st experience, he gave me a lot of confidence.

We split when he went to uni and remained long distance email friends for a long time afterwards.

15, with my 16yo boyfriend. It was the first time for both of us. I remember thinking "this is what everyone goes on about? How boring". We broke up a few months later, we just weren't working. He was very sweet though!

Next time was a lot better. I was 16, he was 19 and knew what he was doing

16 with my first love. I was 15 when we met, he was a bit older than me at 17. He was happy to wait for me to be ready and to be of age so we did it about 4 months after we started dating. I look back on it very fondly and am very glad I lost it to someone I loved and who was so patient with me.

13th birthday to a boy aged 15 I thought he was nice but he abused me for two years.

Was 17 with my first boyfriend who was 19, he was also a virgin. It wasn't anything special and it did hurt a bit.

16

Got honeymoon cystitis afterwards, was quite disconcerted to be pissing blood for days. Couldn't possibly tell my mother but managed a quick peek in the Reader's Digest Family Health Guide which reassured me.

15 here in horrible circumstances, some my own fault but mostly his. He was 27, stupid ONS outside.

all in all it was a dreadful experience and it is the the thing I regret most in my life.

Nearly 20. He was 39. I didn't fancy him, I didn't particularly like him. He was skinny with a beer gut so he looked like a frog when he was naked.

I was brought up to think I was unloveable and sex was something that men did to women so it seemed futile to wait for someone who 'loved' me and it also seemed best to just get it out of the way so that I at least knew what it was, given I was going to have it done to me at some point anyway.

I didn't hurt, but it was pretty unremarkable.

I was 16, he was older and not a virgin and it was pretty great actually. Well there must've been something good about it because we're still together

Noarm a THREESOmE for your first time, how did that happen - please tell (hmm)

I instigated it, it just happened really. It was me and 2 army guys. Was a lot of fun.

15 nearly 16. He was 19. I wish I hadn't done it with him because he was rubbish, clearly went for the younger inexperienced girls, he was also a twunt, and dumped me a short while later! Wanker!

25. With a good friend who I far-too-quickly fell in love with, then had my heart thoroughly bruised 6 months later when he decided to end it.

Looking back, I think I was his rebound girl. Le sigh...

15. The little bugger dumped me a week later. My partner on the other hand was 33, I was his first

17, been together for a year......now my husband!! Rock'n'roll youth

It was on my 15th birthday with my 15 year old boyfriend. We had met on holiday in Spain in the October, he lived over 500 miles away but came to see me for a holiday for my birthday in the January.
Don't regret it, it wasn't great and hurt a fair bit.
My next boyfriend was a much better experience and I thought ok this is what everyone is talking about lol
Was I too young? Hmm I don't know I was always old for my age and we practiced safe sex.

I was 19. Was with my first boyfriend who became my DH for 12 years.

I was 15. It was painful and incredibly unromantic. He was 29. I realise just how wrong it all was now, and just how little control I had over my life then despite thinking I knew it all.

17 - with my first boyfriend, who is now seeing my ex best friend.

Still haven't and am now old.

19 ONS...'late bloomer' and terribly shy! How things change ;-)

16 and was nothing special on a school trip. We were bf and gf for a bit but no great romance. Next, at 18 to a man 10 years older than me. Now that was far more exciting. Sex in all sorts of unusual places! Lost contact but saw him again after 20 years about 4 years ago and wondered what on Earth I had been thinking!

14, ONS was shit. I didnt really enjoy sex until i was nearlly 16, because it was with someone i realllly liked.

This may totally put me, but hey.

I suffered from vaginismus, so no sex, even though I'd had a couple of close boyfriends.

Travelling round the world, met a guy on a thai beach. Nice night out. Then he said, no offence, but I don't do it with virgins. What a fucker!

So the next night I went out and met a hot Israeli basketball coach. I told him all about it and we went and got stoned and I lost it with him. A hot Israeli basketball coach. Stoned. On a thai beach.

It was worth the wait

16. In the sea! Ouch!

15. I liked it, was kinda painful though. I was naive, my boyfriend was anything but.