How old we're you when you lost your big V

[Flowerybitch]

I was 14 and when I look back now I was soo young but thought I knew everything, lasted 2 minutes and really not all it was cracked up to be. Has anyone got any horror stories about their first time they would like to share :-)

14. It hurt and I didn't have a clue what was going on. Next time a year later with lovely bf was much better!

17 very close to 18. It was great. No pressure whatsoever despite the fact he was 7 years older than me. He waited for me until I was absolutely ready. We were together for two and a half years or so.

22. I suffered very badly with vaginismus for a long time so the decision was taken out of my hands until then really, but as it turns out I'm glad I waited as it was with my now DH.

24, with my future husband and I just realised we have been together 24 years now.

Wasn't much fun.

16 and it really hurt! I remember thinking he must be doing it wrong!

15, I was very happy about it, it was lovely and I look back on it fondly. Sadly it wasn't with DH, he was my second. That is my only possible regret about it.

16. Shouldn't have bothered! He made me go on top- terrible introduction to sex for someone who is not body-confident. Pppfffftttt!!!

18, to an english marine

Hung like donkey and it really hurtcat first. Second time wad much better! Sadly he turned out to be abit of a dick, but I dont regret it and I never will!

14 to a bit of a prick. He was 17 and I thought he really liked me, but after a few jumps he went off with someone else.

15 as was he. It was very planned we had to bunk off school to make sure we were alone and I still had my uniform on while doing it It's was pretty rubbish, we only did it twice in total and broke up not long after. I still think about him fondly though.

19. To the love of my life who I left five years later :(

22 to my dp. Two years later and I'm so glad it was with him. X

17 to my first love. It was great but I came back from the toilet to find him chatting on the phone to his mates. He sent a text message to all of them to let them know he had done the deed. I should have realised he was a dick there and then but I was young and stupid and stayed with him for 18 months.

15 and I was pressured into it. He's a knob now too. I had a pregnancy scare and I get cold shivers now thinking about how I could have completely screwed up my life.

19, to my first bf - he was lovely, but older than me and ready to settle down whereas I had just started uni and wanted my wild years. He was kind, patient and made sure it was good for me though and I will always be grateful to him. My DPs still see him regularly, he is a lovely guy.

16, a threesome, was brilliant

15. Could have lost it at 12 but lost my bottle instead.

18. The only exciting part was that we did it in a graveyard which I felt boosted my goth credentials. The bloke and the sex were both very dull.

Didn't hurt at all but then my hymen had been mangled years earlier during some energetic mountain biking.

I was 20 and probably about the last virgin in my Uni year. I did feel as if I needed to get on with it! My bf loved me from afar for sometime before I succumbed and we were together for several years. It wasn't great sex but it was the right person at the right time.

Noarm a THREESOmE for your first time, how did that happen - please tell (hmm)

16. To my first boyfriend. I don't think either of us were ready, it only happened because of a misunderstanding. It wasn't great but it was at least in a bed to someone I cared about, which is better than a lot of people manage.

19, and loved every single second of it. Definitely no horror story here.

My 18th birthday. Lucky for him I had nothing to compare it to. He was still crap at it 18 months later when I saw sense (for other reasons, he was emotionally and physically abusive) and dumped him. He's still a twat 20 years later...