How old we're you when you lost your big V

[Flowerybitch]

I was 14 and when I look back now I was soo young but thought I knew everything, lasted 2 minutes and really not all it was cracked up to be. Has anyone got any horror stories about their first time they would like to share :-)

18, and my minge clamped him in a vice like grip! Vaginitis I think it's called, we got over it and were together for four years.

16, to my first boyfriend, on the day after I finished school - to do it while I was still school uniform age felt weird to me. He was two years older than me and we had been together since I was 14. He was lovely and respectful and never put any pressure on me, so it wasn't a bad experience in that sense, but the main reason why he hadn't been in any rush was because he was a born again Christian and had major hang ups about sex before marriage - rather than spending the aftermath of our first time loved up together, he spent it atoning to the Pastor for his sins!!! Needless to say, we didn't last much longer after that…20 years on and I'm still living in sin with my gorgeous DP, whereas he's married to a "naice" Christian woman who spends all day embroidering tapestries with Bible passages on them and baking cupcakes with crucifix piping...

16. Regret who it was with - he was a knob who I can see groomed me for about 9 months.

15. It was perfect.

Llama

Vaginissmus

Vaginitis is just inflammation

23...I was so shy...

18, bit crap and didn't get much better for the next few months I saw him. Next one was much better.

TheBigBumTheory

Thanks, am 45, should really know that by now!

17 although I did a bit of didgery pokery when I was 14 with a lad I was with a year but not full on sex

13, school trip to glamorous Ostend.

15 (and a half) together since 11 natural progression, he was killed in bike crash at 17, no one els til 19

16 I think.

I say I think because I think it was only the end that touched me hey it was cold and we were on a bench, I couldn't feel anything. He was my first love.

Properly, closer to 17 I guess.

24

Both 18, still at school, very sweet. Still friends now.

19 to my first love and we've been together for 19 years now.

I was about of a wild child back then drank loads, took drugs, kisses loads of boys but never went all the way.

should add, it was lovely and planned, contraception, the works, can still, very happily remember the aftermath of holding each other and laughing. and then making love for us not because it was a teen age box to tick and looking at each other and realising that it was a big deal and getting the emotion of it and then it was private and then I lost him

14! We were together until I was 17, lovely person.

19 with my first bf, we were together for 5yrs. The sex was great throughout the 5yrs - i thought it would be like this with everyone but unfortunately it wasn't. Only one other person came close. I suppose it was because we were young and in love. It ended very messily, I was heart broken, went a little bonkers for a while and he had panic attacks. Took me years to get over it. Never had my heart broken to that extent, until now ... but thats another story for another thread!

With a "man"- 14. Think he was 15. All fine. Waited a couple of months and relationship lasted another 4/5 months after. With a woman- still waiting.

I was 23, bf was 25. Lost our virginity to each other.
We are now married with toddler, 16 years later

It worries me when people say they bled and it hurt. That wasn't my experience at all, the first time was no more uncomfortable than the 200th time. Is there something wrong with me?

Oh, Dirty, I didn't even consider that, as all my, erm, I've only ever been with men .

He was 23 and my French host brother. He took his time and wow, he was amazing! I'm glad it was him after hearing so many other stories over the years. I chose him and am glad I did.

We are still friends, both married with children.

You'd never know it from looking at him but, man, he was a luvah.

TheArtic - it probably just means you split your hymen at some point earlier in childhood.

I didn't bleed, Arctic, but I had been in ballet from the time I was 3 and quite flexible. It 'hurt' in a sort of stretchy way the first time, and my poor inner thighs had sort of spasm for a short whilst after, but it wasn't bad at all.

Well I didn't pick the best way to lose it. I was 15, it was 1976 and I was in Montreal during the Olympics, and I just decided I wanted to dump my virginity so's I could have the possibility of more casual sex with a boyfriend I didn't yet have. For some reason I wasn't keen on offering up my flower like it was a big thing.

So I set off with a mate to pick up a random, and ended up losing it to a creep called Tommy who was a 30 year old school P.E. teacher. Given that I was totally flat chested and looked about 12...

I've long since realised that that was not the best idea, and am very happy that my daughters were much more sensible.