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Public reaction to affairs!

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NakedTigarCub · 07/02/2014 15:57

Hi

I know this is a differcult topic but I would like others point of view on this please.

A couple I know well have split up. The dh had an affair and the wife kicked him out and he is now living with the ow and her kids. He has filed for devorce for HER unreasonable behaviour. The wife is fine with this as she just wants to get rid of the cheating twat.

Im truly shock that noone care he had an affair. Not his or ow kids, not his coworker not even the wife's Father that still sees and chats to the exh. When the wife was talking about it in a group another women said "I see you are still smarting about the affair" Shock

The exh has not recieved any negative reaction from anyone. Is this normal now that people just swap and change partners when ever they want with no reprocusions?

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Darkesteyes · 09/02/2014 22:06

You know who else they say can only come in if invited dont you? Vampires!!

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str8tothepoint · 10/02/2014 17:56

I suppose if your DH/OH was having an affair with a same sex partner then nobody would want that public

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Offred · 10/02/2014 18:54

Confused wow! This thread just gets stranger!

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anapitt · 10/02/2014 19:12

Darkesteyes I have been moved by your story once again.
I hope you find love soon.
In your circumstances I would positively encourage you to have an affair if it made you happy.

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Darkesteyes · 10/02/2014 20:27

Thanks for your support anapitt. Thanks I have found some wonderfully supportive ppl on MN since i joined three years ago. This place has helped me a lot.

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