Broken - I'm a bloke. I have the same drives, failings, problems and advantages of other men.
I've met women through dating sites, and in real life who have obviously been looking for a relationship, and I'm entertaining, relatively attractive, interesting and educated, so to some I'm appealing. Some of the women I've met are quite attractive too, and vaguely okay to spend a bit of time with, and in fact some I've remained friends with - although not many as that's always ambiguous.
Some others though - I know I could string them along, keep them on the back burner, go for drinks with them, say all the right things and then get them into bed. I don't want to do that because I don't want to upset anyone if they think its more than just sex. I don't want more than sex with them, and they want more than sex with me.
This bloke is doing exactly the same things I would do if I was to go for the sex option, not the relationship option. If you need a friend that much then fine, go be friends. But it's obvious what he's up to. He will hurt you, and you're justifying allowing him to hurt you in advance. I just don't get it at all.
If your username wasn't 'brokenhearted' and the same type of thing hasn't already happened to you twice since you started posting on here, I wouldn't be arguing like this, but it is, and it has, and you're digging your own hole here
Sorry not to be more sympathetic but to be honest you're ignoring all advice telling you what's going on, so I'll shut up about it now