The git is refusing to move in with his friend...

[Lemmingswife]

Until we exchange contracts on our house!
I am SO angry & upset. This could take months & months.
I asked him last night if he was intending to make the move sometime next week, seen as his friend returns late on Sunday. He said "I'm not moving in with him....well not until the house has been sold & we have exchanged contracts."
He told me that he was prepared to make the move, until a friend (who he won't name) pointed out how ridiculous it would be to look after the children in the house if I ever went out & he said that it wouldn't be right to take them to his friends house.
He said that HE pays the mortgage & the TV licence and had every right to stay as long as he needed to, but he wants out too, which is why the quicker this house sells, the better.
I was so upset & furious after he came out with this last night. I cannot go on like this for what could be months, I will seriously lose it.
I would move out with the children myself, if I could.
He kept putting on a silly fake laugh, saying "Imagine me coming to this house to look after the children. How ridiculous!"
I am so cross & so upset. I cannot go through the whole of the summer like this.

Thank you, batters. I was wondering where Blu was, as I hadn't seen her on MN at all for a few days. I hope she is alright & all is ok with her family.

lemmingswife, just wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you

please bear in mind you may not be able to post freely here in future

Well just in case that's true ZZ I shall offer my opinion of LW's H's ludicrous statement "women have no common sense, that is why men rule the world" by saying I think he is a complete fuckwit and a tosser of the highest order.

This is of course only my opinion and does not reflect the views of MN in general (although I reckon if we did a poll it would be pretty unanimous).

LOL tribpot!
ZZ, I am very aware that I will not be able to post here freely in the near future. When things hot up in my life, I tend to stop posting. I didn't post about my situation after Christmas, because I was being careful due to the SS getting involved. I will be careful & may well seem to dissapear for a while in the near future.

Winnie, thank you for thinking of me.

I wish I could get out

He is being horrible & throwing things upstairs

dont know ackground but are you ok

Throwing things? What, and why? Are you ok?

I don't know why.

He is scaring me

call the police then and get the gobshite arrested if he is causing damage
whether it is his house or not

sorry to be so blunt but you deserve better than this

Is he drunk?
Keep your mobile in your hand.

Take a deep breath. He's probably letting off his temper...but if he seems different or is directly abusive to you, call the police.

He has not been home long.

Is he smashing stuff? is it yours?

he is intimidating you and that is not on
get rid sweetheart
your life is worth much more than that

LW

YorkieGirl's beloved DH is lying dead in Portugal.

Sadly yours is very much alive.............be strong.....................just blank and go to bed.

TBH, You are giving him power over you at this precise moment in time.

I know, LGJ, & I feel so bad about Yorkiegirl.

I don't know what is up with him. He has just come in & bounded into the lounge where I was watching TV & demanded the remote control. I said I was watching something & he said "Not any more - I pay the TV license."
I came downstairs & now I hear him throwing things.

sorry blu, didnt know
will leave you too it
as dont want to cause any upset
xxx

LW? Is he still throwing stuff?

It is quiet atm. Don't want to go upstairs