oh yes, whenever he drinks, which he has a problem with, but he crossed the line that night
he was supposed to be staying with me for about 10 days, but still wouldnt go 4 weeks later
he came back drunk and started ranting at me , and i wasnt feeling good, so i asked him not to do it now, wait til i was feeling better, but he carried on and then said TO my kids that i was a lying c*t, and that if he was 25 i would let him stay so i could f*k him on my bed
the kids kept crying and getting upset, and i kept asking him to stop, but he wouldnt
when he went outside to smoke i locked him out, then he became apologetic and asked to come inot speak tome and started crying, but i said no and walked away, then he started shouting at me again
he persuaded my oldest dd to let him in and came in immediately shouting again, and i was asking him to go, the kids were so distraught, i kept telling him to stop this and look at them, then he went out for another cigarette and i tried to lock him out again but he heard me and pushed the door open saying he wasnt going anywhere and to make him leave, by calling the police
so i did
of course he started crying and apologising again but i wouldnt hang up, so when i had finished the call he said to the kids, that i was only trying to get rid of him to enable me to bring my new boyfriends round to f*ck them
4 police arrived and persuaded him to go, but he harrassed me by text the whole time, then he turned up on my doorstep a couple of hours later insisting he slept in the garage
i didnt sleep that night worrying if he would try and break in, and i thought the next morning he had gone, and went to the garage to put the groceries into the freezer and he was there
he apologised but when i didnt welcome him back with open arms he got arsey again, left, came back to shout again, upset the kids again, left and went to london, but i was sent texts from him every 20 mins which were more and more abusive, and threatening
so he isnt allowed to stay here anymore when i am
he got out of order yesterday when staying (i stayed away) and when i got back i told him to go, and he started again
all this is because he keeps prying into my private life since we split and he wont let me have one, ranting on about who i ma having sex with, who is worthy and who isnt etc, saying i dont care for him and how could i because he loves me, but we have been split since november!
so no more now, my foot is down , i have been too accommodating of him but not anymore