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tyedye · 02/07/2006 16:01

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madhouse2 · 21/08/2006 23:54

hi
good luck to you all
has anyone heard from glitter fairy is she ok
haven't read the other threads so don't know anyones situations
mine is my husband is a drinker and had been physically & emotionally abusive in the past and although not recently for about a year i know its in him so when he has his nights off and drinks i never know whats going to happen
about a yr ago he would get drunk i would be in bed abd he'd start shouting abuse pushing etc for no reason so now i can't sleep til iknow he is asleep he could never remember so no apolodies or excuses and because of his shifts it was never mentioned as he spends hardly anytime with the kids as it is
i dread christmas etc as it another excuse to get drunk and as i said he is unpredictable he can't understand why i have a problem with his drinking but it no use talking as he get angry and that scares me i turn into a crying shaking wreck if he even raises his voice!! so we plod on him thinking everythings fine

madhouse2 · 21/08/2006 23:54

hi
good luck to you all
has anyone heard from glitter fairy is she ok
haven't read the other threads so don't know anyones situations
mine is my husband is a drinker and had been physically & emotionally abusive in the past and although not recently for about a year i know its in him so when he has his nights off and drinks i never know whats going to happen
about a yr ago he would get drunk i would be in bed abd he'd start shouting abuse pushing etc for no reason so now i can't sleep til iknow he is asleep he could never remember so no apolodies or excuses and because of his shifts it was never mentioned as he spends hardly anytime with the kids as it is
i dread christmas etc as it another excuse to get drunk and as i said he is unpredictable he can't understand why i have a problem with his drinking but it no use talking as he get angry and that scares me i turn into a crying shaking wreck if he even raises his voice!! so we plod on him thinking everythings fine

madhouse2 · 21/08/2006 23:55

sorry must have posted twice

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Tyedye · 24/08/2006 09:09

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Mercy · 26/08/2006 22:27

Just bumping for 123abc who needs someone to talk to if anyone's around.

Ta!

123abc · 26/08/2006 22:48

hi everyone, i'm in a sitution just like some of you, my h is mentally and physically abusive to me

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Tyedye · 27/08/2006 17:53

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Tyedye · 27/08/2006 17:53

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Tyedye · 28/08/2006 17:54

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Tyedye · 29/08/2006 09:28

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tyeydye · 30/08/2006 07:52

Hope everyones doing ok?

stephanieplum · 30/08/2006 14:00

Hello tyedye I think this has died a little since glitter and lemmingswife had to go because of prying eyes!

How are you hun? Hope you are ok!

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tyedye · 30/08/2006 19:51

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stephanieplum · 30/08/2006 22:27

I am fine away at the moment which helps! Will speak to you later!

You are surrounded by as*s me thinks! TRY not to let the b**s get you down that way they win!

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tyedye · 30/08/2006 22:27

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tyedye · 30/08/2006 22:29

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tyedye · 30/08/2006 22:30

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stephanieplum · 30/08/2006 22:36

You know I am always around and believe me you are so much more than they say you are!

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tyedye · 31/08/2006 13:19

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madhouse2 · 31/08/2006 21:31

hi tyedye
don't put yourslef done love
you are a strong woman putting up with all that shit and still holding your family together
don't get to down keeping venting your anger and frustration on mumsnet we are all hear for you

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tyedye · 01/09/2006 10:12

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stephanieplum · 01/09/2006 10:16

Hiya Tyedye! GP cant/shouldnt tell dp anything dont worry. Sounds like you are holding up with considerable strain. What happened about you leaving.

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tyedye · 01/09/2006 16:11

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