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Original poster

Is this pic strange?

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 13:06

Many years ago, after I first met my husband he went holiday to Ibiza with a group of friends. One of the pics taken at that time was with his female hometown friend and he was standing with her puting his hand on her waist. Is this anything strange?

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Original poster
wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 14:53

There was only him and her in the picture. I guess one of the friends who went together took this pic.

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 14:55

Yeah the pose is normal except he put his arm around her waist. But then you all said men putting arms around their female friends are fine. So I shouldnt take this as an issue.

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IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous · 01/09/2013 14:56

So?

Really, what can anyone on here possibly say to you.

You say in one of your other threads that you were going to start counselling for anxiety. Have you been? Are you still going?

Original poster
wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 14:57

Yes, it didnt help.

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TidyDancer · 01/09/2013 15:01

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IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous · 01/09/2013 15:01

Have you stopped going?

ShadeofViolet · 01/09/2013 15:11

Are you not the poster who wants to separate from your husband but dont want him to date?

LittleWhiteWolf · 01/09/2013 15:12

Wow...unclench a little bit why don't you Hmm

fluffyraggies · 01/09/2013 15:17

OP, i am a self confessed heap of insane jealousy when it comes to DH, but even i wouldn't worry about a years old photo like that.

Original poster
wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 15:21

She is still his friend.

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IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous · 01/09/2013 15:40

So. I am facebook friends with my x i dated for 3 years. The thought of anything between us now makes me feel physically sick

Anniegetyourgun · 01/09/2013 15:53

My God, it's XH's twin sister.

ALittleStranger · 01/09/2013 15:57

Can we track down the husband? Someone needs to tell him to LTB.

Biscuit
HeySoulSister · 01/09/2013 15:58

So they are friends now...still? Interesting!

Original poster
wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 15:59

I just found this photo from her facebook. It was actually he put his arm around her hip. I asked him 'isnt this more than just friends' and he answered it's not unusual people take photos when they take photos with friends and he has never been more than friends.

I asked him if he can ask her to delete her photo on her facebook and he said he cant ask her to delete her own photos and it's been a few years since he spoke to her.

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WhiteandGreen · 01/09/2013 16:00

She would think you very odd if he contacted her with this request.

WafflyVersatile · 01/09/2013 16:03

Never mind what we think. What do you think?

fifi669 · 01/09/2013 16:07

What's a reverse thread?

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 16:11

I think she may be actually just a friend as my husband is not type of person who tells a lie with this kind of things.

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Tiredemma · 01/09/2013 16:13

So what's the bloody point of the thread then?

Original poster
wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 16:17

Ive judged she is just a friend of him and putting his arm around her waist/hip(just under waist where your arm reaches) based on your opinions and my husband's words.

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Tiredemma · 01/09/2013 16:18

You have wasted three hours of your life on this.

Original poster
wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 16:19

it was a side of hip where your arms touch on your body if you stand.

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 16:20

I dont think I wasted my life as I have a conclusion. otherwise it would have kept bothering me.

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Tiredemma · 01/09/2013 16:24

That's a relief.